Slaves first Gangbang

Slaves first Gangbang

SirChris​(dom male){Ccurious s} • Sep 13, 2023

My slave of 3 years and I are planning her first gangbang. It is something we both have interest in. However, fantasy and practicality are very different as we all know. Any tips from other experienced couples? Vetting process, what to expect, likes / dislikes, Things you would do differently.

Any help would be appreciated.

Literate Lycan​(dom male) • Sep 13, 2023

There was a discussion not too long ago with some helpful thoughts:

https://thecage.co/phpBB/viewtopic.php?p=65042#65042

Hopefully the discussion helps.

SirChris​(dom male){Ccurious s} • Sep 14, 2023

Thanks for the post! I appreciate it

Miki​(masochist female) • Sep 15, 2023

I probably posted this on that other thread but it bears repeating:

You must use a very "common sense" approach: Know those who would be involved and know them well enough to trust there will be no abuse or disease.

It's not at all like what they show in porn where ten random dudes mount a girl and pound her til they come....

That's a controlled environment. No harm will be allowed and of course all "adult entertainment" performers are rigorously tested for STDs.. and on a regular basis or else they're out the door. They may make it look like it's random, rough riding but that's for the thrill of the viewer. It's all art. Make believe.

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I've endured gang-bangs quite often over the years.. But only with dudes I know/knew well enough to know they wouldn't unduly harm me or risk my health.

SirChris​(dom male){Ccurious s} • Sep 16, 2023

Thank you for the advice! I was in contact with a guy that organizes local GB. he has a list of guys to go through and reach out to to see if they are interested and tested. We are getting closer to the event!

Sincorrigible​(sub female) • Sep 22, 2023

I was once play partner with a man who made bdsm porn. Almost every submissive he ever played with/worked with wanted to experience a gang bang situation. As you can imagine, he was extremely well connected in the scene, and this was in Birmingham in the UK, arguably one of three 'kink capitals' in the UK. Or was then.

He told me that it was notoriously difficult to find men who could maintain an erection in that situation, and also that it was hard to find trustworhy men. Extreme care required I think.

YMMV. This was nigh on 20 years ago. Not sure I would be trusting another to choose/find the men.

I had another friend, femsub, who had this as her primary fantasy. Her very caring partner spent months cultivating friendships to enable the enactment. When I expressed an interest in experiencing it, she point blank told me it was the sole thing she'd done which did not at all live up to her fantasy. She was fine, but she cautioned me to leave that one as fantasy.

helenvm • Sep 22, 2023

i have been to many bdsm parties and have learned a few things

1) the fantasy is always very different from reality

2) bdsm activities usually keep going further

3) most couples at the bdsm parties i went to were married but not to each
a) 1 partner wants to go further than the other
b) cheating usually results in divorce

4) you could be starting down a road some time in the future you wish you did not start

helenvm • Oct 22, 2023

i was reading the post and thought that is a lot like me

then i realized it was me

FunKinkyDom​(dom male){Dom} • Oct 22, 2023

Set your boundaries you feel comfortable with. Full screen testing and find guys who are into this. That know how to be gentlemen.

helenvm • Jan 10, 2024

be careful