54, happily married with permission to engage with others online and real life.
20 year history exploring. Mostly submissive, which is my core sexuality. And though it's a shame to have to say it, that history is real life. So I'm highly attuned to 50 shades wannabe online dominants who think they know what it's all about. Update: clearly something is lost in translation. I'm not looking for a wank fest dominant, particularly one under 40 with years of experience. Open to conversation, banter and friendship. Open to a special friendship with the right man.
I'm what you'd call old school. This is not about kinky sex for me. It is about synergy, connection, ownership, and the devotion that comes with that. Bdsm and sex follow that for me.