54, happily married with permission to engage with others online and real life.
20 year history exploring. Mostly submissive, which is my core sexuality. And though it's a shame to have to say it, that history is real life. So I'm highly attuned to 50 shades wannabe online dominants who think they know what it's all about.
Update: I have found a very special man with whom to explore and I am not seeking anything more than friendship and banter.
I'm what you'd call old school. This is not about kinky sex for me. It is about synergy, connection, ownership, and the devotion that comes with that. Bdsm and sex follow that for me.