Any Doms who do it for fun?

CanBiWife​(dom female) • Dec 18, 2023

I am a gentle Domme abd Bi — and enjoy being in control of a woman … sometimes just for fun.

I am a romantic ? person by nature so I am never mean or cruel to a Sub

But I do enjoy exploring a certain degree of pain with someone who has Masochistic tendencies.

Mistress Kassandra​(dom female) • Dec 18, 2023

Entitlement and ego-stroking is certainly "fun" at least for me and have seen the arrogance as fun for other Doms at real life events. Not every Dom is into humiliation but many are into that. Making sure your expectations are aligned is important at the beginning.

CageOwner​(dom male) • Dec 19, 2023

I think the whole online dating thing is the search for the needle in the haystack.

Whether you are D/s, male/female, straight/queer or anything else, it is the proverbial search for the needle in the haystack.

A journey full of frustrations that will make us jaded. I recently took my personal ad down as the “quality” of contacts was frustratingly low. Ranging from “fair experience” at best to mostly “OMG experience”. I couldn’t take any more low quality, low effort “get to know” conversations.

So, yeah, it’s bad on all sides, on all fronts.

But to answer your question:
What you are looking for is out there. Somewhere.
What I am looking for is out there. Somewhere.
But it’s damn rare and damn hard to find.
And if we give up looking nobody could blame us.

Happy hunting…