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My ex revealed his kink to me and I don't know what to do

Hunter of the LostVerified Account
Hunter of the LostVerified Account
10 months ago • Feb 10, 2024
Hunter of the LostVerified Account • Feb 10, 2024
Somehow, being he's laid all of that on you, I don't think he's ever going to be satisfied with just "you". So, don't cut yourself short. You're young, that is what some could consider "puppy love".
You'll find the one who truly loves "YOU" , if you just allow time to heal your past traumas, and ditch his demanding foolishness.

Best of luck to you....
MasterDomDok​(sadist male){you?}
10 months ago • Feb 24, 2024
"Superior sperm?" I thought we deleted that song when we deleted the Nazi party. I sure hope his base commander or MPs don't catch wind of his treatment of you. If you want to keep him out of the brig, make sure your bruises are well covered when you are on base, or any functions with him.
IDKwhatimdoinghere​(switch female)
5 months ago • Jul 26, 2024
IDKwhatimdoinghere wrote:
Hi all, this is an update to anyone who wants to follow along with this because it seems like a few of you are quite interested.

I have decided not to follow through. I will tell him how I truly feel about what he’s said and be brutally honest with him, and if he cannot take that, I will be breaking up with him. I chose to continue the relationship if he is willing to understand. However, I will be cautious moving forward. I find it quite degrading of him to think so low of me and even if I like it occasionally, I do not like that in a serious 1 on 1 relationship.


Im sure none of you guys thought I would post another update to this. I blocked him about a month after posting this update. I have realized that I hid a lot from you all. He was a complete douche bag and treated me like trash.

Anyway, moral of the story, if you have a bad feeling about someone early into the relationship, you’re probably right. Run for your life.
LoveandDevotion​(sub female){Owned}Verified Account
4 months ago • Jul 27, 2024
LoveandDevotion​(sub female){Owned}Verified Account • Jul 27, 2024
Polyamory is sorta popular right now and people are exploring if it's a form of sexual orientation or just a different relationship dynamic.

But if it's an orientation, monogamy is too. And even if it's just a kink, monogamy can be too.

I am monogamous to the point of it being a kink or orientation. That is, it literally turns me on. One on one commitment is hot as hell. The idea of one person committing the rest of their life to me and me alone and never ever wanting to share me is HOT AS FUCK. The idea of my man with others is sickening. Him wanting to share me puts a pit in my stomach and makes me want to cry.

From how you felt when you said that, you seem the same. I know you love him, but I don't think you're compatible as is. And that's okay. Hugs.
chastitybound{Yes }
4 months ago • Jul 30, 2024

Thank you for your service. 🇺🇲

chastitybound{Yes } • Jul 30, 2024
Jersey Firewalker wrote:
After reading your post, I would say that you made the right decision by breaking up with him. I'm ex-military myself and I've seen a lot of guys use "deployment" as an excuse for acting like a total asshole. You're better than that.

What he wants is to be like Elvis. He wants his "wife" to be the mother of his children, and his property, and for her to worship him without regard to her thoughts and feelings. He also wants to be surrounded by willing women who will fuck him as much as he wants. Naturally, he wants his "wife" to put up with this nonsense without complaining and to meet his needs without regard to her own needs. Am I just about right here?

You can live without this. Find yourself a real alpha man who will treat you with the respect that you deserve.

Just my opinion...