Eveonna(masochist female){none}
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1 month ago •
May 16, 2024
1 month ago •
May 16, 2024
How long is too long?
Whatever you agreed on, both are committed and willing. Talking to someone for six months you message back and forth here and meet up in a virtual place in that time you via cam and voice in a mature manner. After 6 months of talking , you meet a few times for the first time in a year but make long outings together. It takes a good year to fully get to know someone in the second year to make sure engagement goes and stay with each other longer, like weeks and months. In the second half of the year going down you relocate to them or you relocate or you have to sell your house or both do you find a new place for both of you. They are willing to take you for everything you come with your full luggage but this also means are you willing to take for what they have and the luggage. You both will have to make some changes and might have to get rid of some things to move. If you have animals and kids that big one everything should have been talked about before even moving in. A Lot to think about do you both have a spark for each other not giving up for each other willing to go through the ride or die and think and be there for each other. Have a good plan and both agree on it. Some things are gonna have to change. Some people might have relatives with them they are taking care of. They might be willing to move but are they willing to make a good choice with you that is willing to take what they have. I know a couple that met. Yes, they had to sell both their houses so they could find one for them to start anew. Gotta get out of your comfort zone if you really want this to work. But in the beginning and now you gotta take it slow nothing can be rushed. It happens over time.Make sure someone is not after you financially and looks like they like you for you inside and out. Not just after sex with your body as lust gotta be more than that with love more of the respect with intimacy. Both should be upfront about feelings if anything changed not good to beat around a bush. Don't get to attached til you know its right but when both agree can't just be one gotta be the same. But get emotionally invested before getting hooked. But to keep a women you gotta keep her happy win you everyday celebrate with her like first day you meet. Lad to sets the vision, creates the plan takes the action.
The man or women you choose to be your partner effects everything in your life. Your mental health, Your peace of mind,your love inside you, your happiness, how you get through trades, your successes, how your children will be raised , and much more. Choose wisely.
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