Hand To Throat

Hand To Throat

lambsone • May 30, 2024

What is it about a man's hand on a woman's throat that he owns, that is so alluring? I crave that especially during sex (it's never been done to me. But pictures of it turn me on.) but I don't know why. And what is the man feeling when he does it to a woman?

Sincorrigible​(sub female) • May 30, 2024

Good question!

For me, I think it's the vulnerability. The trust. The threat/fear. That hand could do so much damage. And it's a point of submission to allow a man to touch you in that way.

Here's a question for you though: which affects you more: hand on throat, or hand round the back of your neck?

*shiver

😁

lambsone • May 30, 2024

Hmmmm .... hadn't thought of that. Hand on the back of the neck suggests a more romantic gesture if I were to respond without thinking to hard on it. But there is also a possessive quality to it as well. However I think hand on the throat would be my favorite.

lambsone • Jun 1, 2024

Anyone else have some thoughts. I hate to see this topic sit dead in the water. We haven't heard from any Dominants yet.

reddragonone​(dom male) • Jun 3, 2024

I'm new to all this but for me , when holding my hands or hand around the throat or neck turns me on something rotten !. Couple this with filthy talk and I can hardly control myself. The thought that a woman is trusting enough to want this,is also a turn. Being manhandled and controlled is almost delving into the primal instincts. A strong alpha male is still seen as a good and safe bet for security of life. Strength, strong physical presence etc , all seen at a base nature level is hard wired into the females I think. A young lady I was with who loved being choked and held down, being manhandled for my use was a huge turn on. She said that it made her feel protected and scared at the same time. She was the one that encouraged me I to changing my vanilla ways approach to sex , and I must say, the sex has been so, soo much better when I have had encounters like this. All be it only 2 encounters.

lambsone • Jun 3, 2024

Thank you for sharing reddragonone. Glad to hear a man's perspective.

Grizzledoldman • Jun 3, 2024

My hand on the back of my woman's neck....that is pure ownership. She goes where I intend for her to go, she has willingly surrendered control completely. My hand on the throat of my woman, that is 100% trust from her to me. She knows that I can hurt her, that even letting go of my self control could cause real damage, but she knows I will control even myself, to prevent that damage....

Garv​(dom male) • Jun 3, 2024

For me, Possession and Dominance. No more needs to be said.

Just another Tarzan beating his chest :-}.

lambsone • Jun 3, 2024

Very cool grizzledoldman. Thank you for sharing your experience.

lambsone • Jun 3, 2024

Absolutely the things subbies love Garv. Thanks for sharing.