TwinkleEyes
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7 months ago •
Dec 20, 2023
I find nice guys are the scariest. Their real agenda is hidden…. One of the “nice guy” here kept offering me a spanking for a BG and another did non consensual stuff to me.
If prefer the ones who are straight up about wanting sex or a dynamic. At least they are up front and honest. I know most submissive don’t. The trauma stories that are told to me are about the “nice guy”. |
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Cognizant(sadist male)
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7 months ago •
Dec 20, 2023
All humans are complicated in that we often put on masks, different masks depending on who we are engaging or how we want to appear to a specific other(s). Actions speak much louder than words. . .but often people will be on their best behavior when meeting people for the first time or even over long periods of time. As far as online goes. . .it's hard to believe someone is a nice guy if their messaging seems pushy , rude or violates your trust or consent.
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Irish123(dom male)
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1 month ago •
Jun 10, 2024
I always felt if they say it the ain't it. I have found it to be true far to often, sadly.
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intenseoldman(dom male)
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1 month ago •
Jun 10, 2024
First of all, I shouldn't find someone like that amusing, but yeah... guilty.
Second, nice is a pretty low bar. Used car salesmen are nice. So is my dog. Hello... Last but not least. If you have to say you're nice, safe, and sane, repeatedly, you're definitely not. Run for the hills. |
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WhatamIfightingfor(dom male)
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1 month ago •
Jun 10, 2024
An old saying "be wary of the quite ones" and anther thing I have heard often "he seemed so well adjusted, till I read his writting" and "he is the nicest person I know and he writes the scariest stuff I have ever read", if they have to lie about who they are be afraid, if they get along well, and have accpted and do not let it run them their dark side they are good to be around.
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LoveMaster(dom male)
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1 week ago •
Jul 18, 2024
Trying my best to impersonate your old grandmother that live alone in the woods.
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House Talion(dom male)
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1 week ago •
Jul 19, 2024
Nice guys finished last, tell me something else.
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Steellover(sub male)
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1 week ago •
Jul 20, 2024
This thread is the classic examples of the "Mixed Messages" a lot of guys get.
On one hand, we are told we are supposed to be gentlemen, be a nice guy and treat a woman gallantly and with kindness, be sensitive, and all that. But then when we do, it's "the scariest," "too nice," or at least, women aren't receptive to it. It's a fine line- what are guys supposed to do? This can admittedly be frustrating. |
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Little Vixie(sub female){Mgh30}
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1 week ago •
Jul 20, 2024
Steellover wrote: This thread is the classic examples of the "Mixed Messages" a lot of guys get.
On one hand, we are told we are supposed to be gentlemen, be a nice guy and treat a woman gallantly and with kindness, be sensitive, and all that. But then when we do, it's "the scariest," "too nice," or at least, women aren't receptive to it. It's a fine line- what are guys supposed to do? This can admittedly be frustrating. If you have to tell me that you are a nice guy, then it ain't it. Your actions speak louder than words. Show me that you are a nice guy (and I don't mean spoiling etc). My supposed friend was doing this crap. Seemed super sweet until eventually he'd tell me he was feeling super down then ask to have sex. Anytime we spoke it was to that extent. Called him on it and he tried to make me feel like shit because "he needed to get rid of his stress". |
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Steellover(sub male)
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1 week ago •
Jul 20, 2024
okay, so I guess that makes sense. It's like, we do try to "do the right thing," but yet, I see your point that if you are actually having to TELL people, "Hey I'm a nice guy," then the obvious reaction is, "Really?"
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