Anybody else....

Anybody else....

Sincorrigible​(sub female) • Jun 8, 2024

.... Ever scan the forums/blogs, and read something that just makes you go 'ugh'. But you can't help that curiosity thing to go and look at the profile to see what kind of idiot you're dealing with.

Only to find you've already blocked them.

I suppose at least it's reassuring to know you're consistent. 😁😁😁

InATimelyFashion • Jun 8, 2024

Well They saved you the trip. Wish them well that they heal. I was not sure what happened between this person and you. We all have a story but some are still healing some are growing some just not ready to come out of that shell so allow the grow send free peace. They might be afraid you might be too good for them , You found someone they wish they could have you so they checked off the list( but thing is people can make friends some people are in to rush want it now) , Or just was the right energy not everyone is the same but let it be., They wish they could have your life. We can't fix everyone; they can only do that for themself we don't know what's going on; they could be blocking the whole wide world. Only way to grow is to open the jail from the mind and not let control any more. You gotta take the power back. Just send love and hope they heal no harm done. This world is a mess but love is the only way does mean you have to get involved in the game. Find your people that vibe let those others grow set them loose you gotta cut them loose to grow set they are on their own journey they must do alone just pray and meditate for them they get some help along the way.

One door shuts new one will open. Some visits are short but they teach not a punish for us but help you along the way are choice how we respond to these things.

InATimelyFashion • Jun 9, 2024

I was blocked by many because they did like I had limits and rights and boundaries. They were looking for something in a rush and demands and orders right now. I showed them the door but saw they kept messaging but once I ignored them they blocked me because I was going to fall for their bullSh#t porn fantasy fake life addiction. They block but somehow we'll make new accounts still use the same lines don't they have a life probably living with their parents. Just that a lot of us are selective, we are not going to fall for your game so block us. I don't care if we got better things to do than waste time. Because you have respect and value some people need to know don't give out your limits and rights you need to put respect and value in your life don't let these suckers in does matter who blocks you who does like you only matter you respect yourself those that respect you back.

Six Foot Four • Jun 9, 2024

I read somewhere that you could block blogs from showing up, and since I started doing that I see way less crazy in my feed. It's Super Effective!

Villanelle​(staff) • Jun 9, 2024

There is indeed a 'Hide Blog' option which will remove the blog from your main page and view. Just click the downward arrow by the title and select 'Hide Blog'.

Sincorrigible​(sub female) • Jun 9, 2024

Ohhhhhhh.... That's a brilliant function. I never knew. Thank you both! X

Miki​(masochist female) • Jun 11, 2024

I see. But I don't have a blog-- not at all a fan of walls-of-text but I think what is meant is a way for someone to not see another's blog.

Still confusing, as I never had an issue with problem blogs on other member's profiles. I always thought one had to go into the Blog category to see them.

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As for the initial query--- Never saw a forum post I disliked enough to think "Blargh" -- however if I see an unpalatable forum post I certainly wouldn't go to the writer's profile page to learn any more about them. Not the sort of individual I'd want to know too much about.

TopekaDom​(dom male) • Jun 24, 2024

Or you "love" their profile, because it is well written and thought out only to come back and see they blocked you.


That is vastly amusing

Miki​(masochist female) • Jun 24, 2024

Have not had that happen to me, (that I know of / never really checked).

Whenever someone "loves" my brief and to-the-point profile I "love" theirs back and occasionally write a "thank you" note but indeed, getting blocked after "loving" a profile...

Genuine head shake and eye-roll bad manners.