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5 months ago •
Jun 6, 2024
Improving all aspects of Submission
New submissive and always willing to listen and learn, and hear experiences from others. Open to discussing how and what to improve on as well as being able to improve my communication as well. Emotions, boundaries, sexual acts, tips, let’s talk and discuss how to just overall improve as people in this community.
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MisterAshmodai(dom male)
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5 months ago •
Jun 6, 2024
Work on your ability to communicate, set and hold to boundaries, and introspecting who you are and what you want out of a dynamic.
Everything else is dessert. Dessert is great, but subjective. Find someone with appealing desserts who likes the desserts you have, then start eating each other. |
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tallslenderguy(other male)
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5 months ago •
Jun 6, 2024
As i see it, Dom is on the other side of the sub coin. Not a perfect analogy, but i'm not confident there is such a thing as perfection?
i appreciate what MisterAshmodai writes. i believe one of the first priorities of relationship is 'know thy self,' so i heartily agree with a living practice of introspection. i believe introspection alone cannot give us an accurate picture of our self, that that too can be subjective. i believe a pursuit and practice of listening and looking to/at those we are in relationship with can give us more self knowledge, because we also see our self reflected in relationship with others. But i think there is no such thing as perfect, so our self reflection and the reflection of others will never give us a perfect reflection... holistically speaking. So adding and exercising stuff like grace and forgiveness helps address our imperfections and deal with the imperfections of those we are in relationship with. i don't think this is solely for subs though, i think part of sustainable relationship means all sides of the coin understands and practices and ever pursues self knowledge, openness/transparencty/communication, grace, forgiveness (to me those are elements of 'love'). i think another important factor for either side is compatibility. i don't believe submission or Dominance is generic, so all the above mentioned aides us in identifying our compatibility with another (or lack of the same), and whether or not we have enough connecting or bonding places to sustain relationship. For me, relationship is about symbiosis, not quid pro quo. |
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InATimelyFashion
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4 months ago •
Jul 11, 2024
Asked question if they are not in a profile but a start but also can be added also can make conversation.
Practice in the mirror like your talking to someone practice practice. Example ❤Looking for: Friendship then love. Want someone that read your mind and soul first before the other stuff? Looking to start career or first get in to love with a career working together? Stay at home or want to work? ❤Open to RL or just online relationship? ❤Do you like to talk on voice? ❤What makes you happy? ❤What are your hobbies in ? Whats your favorite color? Are you in to the universe or have a diffren't belief? What foods do you like? Do you like to go out dancing/bowling/see a movie? ❤What is your usual day like? ❤Do you RP, if so what kind of RP? ❤Wanting to settle down or just have friends? ❤How important is D's to you? ❤Are you staying online willing to go real realm? ❤Are you into BDSM, if so are you Sub, Dom, Domme, or Verse? ❤Anything else you would like to add? Q: On what days, and at what times do you generally come online? A: Though out the week Q: What are looking for ? ( Only friendship/SL Only relationship/ sexual meeting/BDSM/RL Relationship too)? A: Connection Friendship bond first Q: What is your relationship status in RL/SL (Attached Male seeking Females/Attached Female seeking Males/Single Male seeking Females/Single Female seeking Males/Single Males seeking Males/Single Female seeking Females)? Unattached in straight land. A: Grow a connection meeting before it can be anything connection can not be forced has to be in the right vibration at the right time had has to be two souls that click. Q: What do you like to do in ? A: explore , look at art , listen to music , bond •Empathic•Sci fi-fantasy•Traditional•Forgotten languages• Unattached in both reserved Demisexual. Love is rare if it happens it happens if not keep living.takes someone special to really wake it up. - ///sporty posh/Victorian/ Time and place for everything. Bond and trust both ways everyone lives it thier freewill. Self care self love Daily routine Mind body soul Grounding and meditation. • Poetic • Intelligent minds • Empathic •Sci fi-fantasy • Deep conversation• Traditional • mindset•Forgotten languages •Endless places•Photography• Artistic • Q: Do you use chat rooms or willing to go on app later? A: Well when trust is build over time with conversation. only in mannerly mature way how should be fine using discord but discreet between two people. Do you enjoy role play? A: well I get in to character I really don't roleplay . Slex out the question gotta be more then that. Q: Is your avatar a human? (If not, please state otherwise) A: Human Q: How would you describe your personality? A: Lone wolf/flamboyant /poetic/Milady/adventuress/ Q: What qualities do you admire in a person? A: Growth, healed , vibe , be creative , understanding , lead the way with manners. responsible , Click , on the same page , Show with effect. Sharing same vision in life , Both have a Plan , Hand Holding, Watching the stars , Showing up for your theater play , Road Trip . Vacation , Dancing , Whispering sweet secrets to each other , Doing the most silly things together , Cheering you up on blue day's , Picking you up over the shoulder , Bucket list.discipline, motivation, goal setting, inspiration, key to success, mindset shift, , motivation, personal development, manifesting, lifestyle, positive mindset, abundance mindset, discipline, success track, that girl, growth, good habits Q: Do you think romance is an important part of an relationship? A: It's the other way around first to develop intimacy skills Dance , Sing , read , to each other , breathe together - communicate. Don't count on slex to be the door to intimacy. Q: Rate your feelings towards romance, from 0 to 10. (0 = Strong dislike, 10 = Strong like) A: all depends get in the mind or soul no soul no nothing. Q: Do you have anything else to add ? A:Sharing same vision in life , Both have a Plan , Hand Holding, Watching the stars , Showing up for your theater play , Road Trip . Vacation , Dancing , Whispering sweet secrets to each other , Doing the most silly things together , Cheering you up on blue day's , Picking you up over the shoulder , Bucket list. |
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InATimelyFashion
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4 months ago •
Jul 11, 2024
How you carry yourself not the looks but as a person who you are with good character. Be what you want tho but be kind make peace in life but don't take crap. Growing is blooming, it will take time. But then again nothing wrong having a mind and speaking up submissive meant to be strong and agree on things time and place to be submissive in ways but submission is earned not just given. Submissive also naturally Dominant nature does mean they may Dom for someone just meant in the real world they like to control things in a good way but yes some submissive do switch but not all do never be forced. Submission comes naturally. The person should respect you at all costs. They should be happy to be part of it they want to lead but the Master itself has to Master themself be disciplined in their life to be responsible, willing to love self to love another and to secure life to make room for another. Submissive also will need to take responsibility even in a single world and master themself also to love themself and another and secure their life also. Set valid boundaries. They must be emotionally invested before anything goes by sweet effect blueprints being shown no sweet words. They need to reach you on the same level. Temple is closed if respect is not given. Someone not the same they get mad because you say no that to bad its life good luck you don't need to say any more block does work. Becoming the partner you seek have a plan. Because person need to be in the same vibration in the same light and spark in the soul if does not feel right they are not for you.
change reality https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PY2RYIOWEFs Art of Conversations https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P0qcFI2as08 How To Be Witty In Conversation https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ze7nMVGwMMk How to be Funny in Any Conversation https://youtu.be/0dC3jj-mlkE?si=R3L2wQ_hR8bXmxhO How to talk to Anyone, Anytime, Anywhere https://youtu.be/P2pGXdqI9s4?si=v57JEyip_F5G7Yu Put Value in self , date self , go out with friend work up to things. https://youtube.com/shorts/rFyDBwVFPM8?si=v2WHZMos_ZX6bHqS small things that build confidence & change your self-perception https://youtube.com/shorts/kiTtChicce8?si=ihxtUVXmnFFIF_k4 Overcome https://youtube.com/shorts/ymmbNoHxcso?si=_gcfZ4mYr9aXJ6ZX Self love https://youtube.com/shorts/UtDE-PLlk5U?si=6OjlWKjmJT_qDqYu Believe in self https://youtube.com/shorts/ilHoNl_9rCo?si=_h4JPFyanBuWxDbd Your vision https://youtube.com/shorts/iONDZcgp4m0?si=zsfjF4-vPfUgRWwb Create your day https://youtube.com/shorts/XM9YBrWRVrY?si=AGpL7yitu0uvACNW Joy https://youtube.com/shorts/9oL86STPlJo?si=faUaAJ7DB4tSRbFw Inner peace https://youtube.com/shorts/TB4hTzw6pvE?si=qcyqyqlRfIf0tDSf do you feel https://youtube.com/shorts/y6Wjvj76mCY?si=smU5oudBOmfn0gjN allow yourself to feel your emotions https://youtube.com/shorts/Azi9oxZETWc?si=X7K3IqlnT4DYVOVF Basic Manners https://youtu.be/cD5en_mMIIE?si=E1pnQG8TsSoNFovJ MAGNETIC AURA https://youtu.be/NcMyRnzZnCk?si=t7dAJ_oVXCElJLr4 your identity https://youtube.com/shorts/1qP5oOkLpyk?si=regrb7Bdbd2YtmG0 Light vs. Dark Feminine Energy https://youtube.com/shorts/kyQqCkS456g?si=d0oCmDbF4dPzLMPI Soft better way to think about discipline. https://youtube.com/shorts/7ZYFiw8gSfc?si=_4NAvHZAEH_4zU2e Being magnetic means being polarizing https://youtube.com/shorts/YWkb4kPi7rA?si=j-oCc8mUDBrjXwgX Show up as her to become her https://youtube.com/shorts/_ZxBUM2wv6w?si=N_RqitlStaJfP4mJ What Sofia Richie Grange Can Teach Us About Reinventing Ourselves https://youtube.com/shorts/9x2TGgFCkfA?si=CCARrGn7t3l3cyKz Share very little at first when getting to know someone keep to the imagination they need take time rush does not work. Friendship that good then courtship then more. Educate self in the lifestyle as much as you can. Be careful who you allow in your life should bring you peace not a headache. This was just sharing take what you feel not to force. |
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Steellover(sub male)
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4 months ago •
Jul 13, 2024
I was a kid when "I melt with You" came out and that song still speaks to me- as a guy who seldom really vibes with slow jam type love ballads, it's probably the most moving and beautiful love song I've ever heard.
And as a guy who seldom vibes with the slow-jam type love ballads, there is something so utterly timeless and classic about the Righeous Brothers' "Unchained Melody" that I would be failing in all aspects of submission if I didn't mention how much I love this song. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zv8czIoAw5w |
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Miki(masochist female)
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4 months ago •
Jul 13, 2024
Steellover wrote: I was a kid when "I melt with You" came out and that song still speaks to me- as a guy who seldom really vibes with slow jam type love ballads, it's probably the most moving and beautiful love song I've ever heard.
And as a guy who seldom vibes with the slow-jam type love ballads, there is something so utterly timeless and classic about the Righeous Brothers' "Unchained Melody" that I would be failing in all aspects of submission if I didn't mention how much I love this song. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zv8czIoAw5w Your link led to "Unchained Melody" I looked up the lyrics, played it on YouTube and put my hands on the speakers to feel the vibe while CC listed the lyrics. It's nice, but too slow for my fast-lane ass... Of note. CC does not often jibe with lyrical look-ups.. Example: "I'll Stop the World" Modern English.. That vibes well even though from what I read, the CC is all fucked up. That stuff rocks, even to the Deaf Girl. |
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