justjules(sub female)
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3 months ago •
Jul 28, 2024
Honorifics
I just had a heated exchange with a man who kept signing his name as Sir. And told me that he would refer to me as sub. From the very beginning of our discussion .
I was taught you don’t use honorifics like that until negotiated and especially if boundaries are set against that (told him 5 times I was uncomfortable with it). Is this site different than what I’ve been taught elsewhere? I understand that it can be used as a general term of respect. But he gave me nothing to respect. Thank you for your help. |
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Sweetlydepraved(masochist female){Mostly}
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3 months ago •
Jul 28, 2024
No, it’s not different but there are plenty who will do this. I would say next time don’t tell someone 5 times, tell them 1 time. He was probably getting off on disrespecting your boundaries, and hoping that you’d continue to let him. Say it once, and if you need to say it twice, use the handy dandy block button.
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justjules(sub female)
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3 months ago •
Jul 28, 2024
Thank you so much 😊
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Sweetlydepraved(masochist female){Mostly}
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3 months ago •
Jul 28, 2024
You’re welcome, and I’m sorry this happened. It’s a long slog through the muck to find someone but it does happen.
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justjules(sub female)
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3 months ago •
Jul 28, 2024
Happened again
Guess other men are reading this and want to push me If they are…they will get cussed out then blocked 😉 |
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TopekaDom(dom male)
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3 months ago •
Jul 28, 2024
If they have to ask or it or demand it, then they are not worthy of it. The D type needs to inspire the usage. If they don't inspire, then they are not doing things right.
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justjules(sub female)
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3 months ago •
Jul 28, 2024
Ty - I know that I was just wondering if it was different here. But I’m glad you said that if anyone new to BDSM happens upon this 😊
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House Talion(dom male)
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3 months ago •
Jul 28, 2024
Consent is required.
If you have not given anyone consent of such things then you have the right to refer to Tham by any name you like, my personal used one is ubber-dom. |
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TopekaDom(dom male)
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3 months ago •
Jul 28, 2024
House Talion wrote: ubber-dom.
A whole different kind of ride sharing service |
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Sincorrigible(sub female)
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3 months ago •
Jul 28, 2024
TopekaDom wrote: House Talion wrote: ubber-dom.
A whole different kind of ride sharing service Lol!!! X |
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