Justsomechris(sub male) |
2 months ago •
Aug 21, 2024
Is it weird to want a relationship first before diving into
2 months ago •
Aug 21, 2024
Justsomechris(sub male) • Aug 21, 2024
There's probably a million posts like this all across this site, but given my inexperience and knowing that the worst case scenario is my post getting deleted or ignored, I thought ''screw it, why not put it out there anyway?'' For the sake of making things clear, by "relationship", I mean friendships, romance, or other relations other than the dynamic.
I started actively pursuing this lifestyle around this time last year. I've looked on multiple sites and apps, trying to get an idea of what exactly I wanted out of a D/s relationship. I briefly found a domme that, while we were still in the discussion stage, made it very clear she had no intention of doing anything beyond play. And that's what really solidified my desires. Some might enjoy NSA, flings, owning others 24/7, or simply being play partners. I'm sure that there's plenty out there like me looking for the same things I desire, too. But is it weird to want to know the person better before getting into it? To want to appreciate them for who they are, beyond the persona they might put on? For both of us to enjoy being around each other outside of play? |
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