What Percent of CAGE Females are BBW?

Onlinedomguy​(dom male) • Oct 27, 2024

Thanks for raising this observation. While physical attributes definitely play a role in attraction for many, I personally find myself more drawn to someone's personality, wit, and overall energy. There's something truly captivating about genuine connections and shared interests that goes beyond appearances.

Perhaps those who mention "BBW" feel it's a significant aspect of their identity they want to put forward, or maybe it's something their potential partners might be specifically seeking.

Ultimately, I think it's wonderful that we have a space where people can express themselves openly and honestly, whatever their preferences may be.

intenseoldman​(dom male) • Oct 27, 2024

Okay, when I think BBW, I don't necessarily think obese. There are big women, like over 5'8" 160 lbs, or more, who are just that, Big & Beautiful.

So, what are we talking about here?

God bless women who love their bodies.

God bless men who respect women.

Period.

ByronDeSade • Oct 29, 2024

Needless to say, you don't believe BBW's should be encouraged to list some semblance of their endomorphic status?

ByronDeSade • Oct 29, 2024

So there is no such thing as BBWs? But if this category is discussed, it's a despicable act?

ewieya​(other female){Myself} • Oct 30, 2024

All with kinky people:

At 180 lbs: Losing weight could change your life! (So wrong). AND "I would guess you have binge eating disorder." (You can't tell what kind of eating disorder someone has based on their weight).
***At 255 lbs: A mess of how sexy I was with all of my curves!!!
At 210 lbs: You lose weight and you'll lose your boobs. But don't gain, no one wants to be fat. (Ugh and double ugh).
At 202 lbs: You are not a BBW (as I had self-identified. Wow).
At 215 lbs: We'll put you on a diet... for your health (before knowing how I eat - you really can't tell by someone's size - LOUD for those in the back).
At 198 lbs: Mister & Miss (triad thing) put me on a diet, I had to ask her if I could eat and she decided what I could eat. He said, "you're built for pleasure not speed. I'm built slim: I'll never be the Hulk and you'll always be big."

***The ONLY Dom who didn't try to get me to lose weight, but was just as into my body when I lost a lot.

Take all of this how you will take it. I only liked when the Dom loved my body. The other stuff caused various issues or made me snort. All of them knew I had an eating disorder. I get the sense not many people understand the eating disorders or don't believe in them.

If someone says they have a mental illness, I'd recommend research + questions.

I've learned so much about myself over the years. I run when this kind of stuff comes up, lest I end up in an arguments about what's best for my body with someone like the "at 180" guy.

Sincorrigible​(sub female) • Oct 30, 2024

I thought the way you raised the topic was rude, trollish, and confrontational. Despicable is perhaps too strong. But tasteless for sure.

Anyone who doesn't appreciate weight is a potentially emotive topic is a bit daft.

I also cant help but think of despicable doms I've come across who use this type of topic to hunt. Men who seek out women who may feel insecure, to use that insecurity to manipulate. Now that is despicable.

I often don't agree with intenseoldman's posts. But I agree with his last two sentences wholeheartedly here.

ByronDeSade • Oct 30, 2024

[quote="Sincorrigible"] Anyone who doesn't appreciate weight is a potentially emotive topic is a bit daft.
I also cant help but think of despicable doms I've come across who use this type of topic to hunt. Men who seek out women who may feel insecure, to use that insecurity to manipulate. Now that is despicable. I often don't agree with intenseoldman's posts. But I agree with his last two sentences wholeheartedly here. [ /quote]

Men are decidedly visual creatures, which all know. And then there are a number of noble ladies in here who admit they are heavy. Yet others casually offer up this fact after a few texts. But, don't forget there are those who would not admit this fact until they were meeting a desired partner. This is why it seems the CAGE BBW population is possibly much higher than average.

What's truly comedic is the huffy pseudo-puritanism, exposing the critic's obscured belief that "BBW" is a category subtly consider sub-perfect by many. Then you excoriate any who discuss the topic. But why should taste be legislated?

It seems obvious you're attempting to convict those who's only error is discussing BMI because it's 'Obviously' superficial and therefore diabolical. But who are you to judge another's preferred aesthetics? Further, what about those not aroused by porcine figures?

The number here who seethe with contempt over others who's only sin is in merely disagreeing with their convictions -- is astounding for a venue dedicated to so-called unacceptable passions and acts. Doctor, heal thyself.

dollMaker​(dom male) • Oct 30, 2024

So whats your true motive, agenda for asking what you have asked?

My first thoughts were A its none of your business, and B what a completely inappropriate thing to ask.

Go on be honest, why are you asking these questions?

Solace​(dom male) • Oct 30, 2024

What does that matter? The persons agenda for asking?

Its a topic for discussion that could be interesting if we could skip the personal ridicules and attacks. I often wonder what draws a person to BDSM over other pursuits. My personal experience has involved mostly ladies coming from some form of past trauma or are seeking structure to change some aspect of their life. Of these a significant number directly list diet control with the desire to lose or control weight as important to them. If, a higher number of BBW's is perceived slash actually real, perhaps this could be the kernel of reason.

What an interesting topic this could have been. What a shame.

I'mME • Oct 30, 2024

To say that the women who pursue BDSM, most come from yada yada yada, shows how little you really do know.

Always with the most women comments. If we knew your body count, I'm quite sure that the most women comments would be dust.