It amazes me how our society has evolved into almost touch free and feel free one. I respect previous post but frankly I don’t agree with what I gleaned from some. If your just curious and wanna play with you’re asshole then by all means use whatever feels good to you. The learning years are the best, alone or not. We here in Texas say “hold my beer” among others. I don’t know how much of your writings on this site they read but I came here specifically to check you out. I have been awol several months. She decided she wanted to sit and rock so all she had was that mentality and tons of meaningless sex she thought was kinky. I decided to slip in and see what you’re all about. Because you’re a fellow Lone Star I’m gonna give you what has worked every time from the time I was 19 on leave in El Paso all the way to the previous lg before the aforementioned. All this talk, although true, is for everybody else. This parts for you and very true. Dickin’ with newbies in the “bed grappling”situation you’re asking about, is not recommended. That’s how you go from curiosity to fk that sht in Mach speed. If you’re just wanting partners I say get busy and do what you like or want. But I (not bragging just stating what I know to be true) have a hot breath cold breath up close thing that will make you wiggle. To be straight serious and not fluffing, there’s not many that can deny my tongue works nor the consistency of my mouth lube. Talking and having knowledge is awesome. However you would never require lube. That craps nasty tasting and forces you body to not do it’s natural thing. Combined lines from two folks doing all the right things can’t be beat. Is more fun than a pump or squeeze from a tune. When I start up too by the time I take that body cruise with that man I’m your boat, unless you have a dry spell unrelated to our the situation at hand, you will be changing sheets. After I send you crawling up that headboard with your shoulder blades, don’t worry I have a “nice touch” when I drag you back down to center to flip you over and continue the journey I promise you won’t be thinking about or needing lube. I’m not sure why I’m seeing fellows talk about lube like that’s all they know. It’s in the whole spectrum of that moment in that bed where we are sharing so much more than just trying. I do guaranteed. We in Texas talk big about kissing kitty but few know what they are doing i.e. the lube thing. I hear it all the time. Guys get you’re tongues out. Here’s the Texas thang, if you’re mine I will know ahead of time what you are requesting. It would start when you’re eyes opened that morning with me looking deep into them with my shit Eaton’ greatest m. From that point they have to guess wi would do to you. Rest assured you would sleep very well that night. Maybe! I do enjoy me some kitty. I’m not sure your stamina but if it’s anywhere close to mine, we could roll through days of getting to know each other. Or at least me getting to know you. It’s important to know and enjoy every square inch of the girl I’m with. Unless! Pm me for the rest. I think that should be between myself my girl and the bedroom walls. Bedroom being loosely related to any position or place we may find ourselves in when we have the urge. To be honest my lifestyle switch is broke in the on position at all times. If you ask anybody that has known me more than a year, most can say I have that thing they can’t quite describe but can’t put their finger on it. See for me respect is woven into the fabric that is me. As is safety. I come from the days when supposed Doms were just taking subbs from other Doms. None even looked my way as far as I know. Respect on all levels until there’s none, that when things change. So the long winded answer is here,. The short answer iis if I met with you the trust would have already started to build. It would have to or we wouldn’t meet. The lifestyle is real and as for myself very healthy. There’s sooo much more than typing. So if you get wet, don’t even consider lube or really even worry about the size of the beads or plug. Either by the time it happened you would trust me or if I sensed you didn’t trust enough, it would go from what you desired to learn to hey if you haven’t reached the level of trust I think you should have I’ll prolong it but still stick my tongue in dark places. If somewhere in all this I peaked you’re curiosity, curiosity me on into the private conversation. As it should be. Hustle up there’s a lot to absorb between now and that time.
Give it a think and let me know. I enjoy what I’ve read of yours and can tell there’s more here than healthy curiosity and brains to go with it. Talk to ya soon. J