shortylotus
sub female

Iowa, United States
Age
47
About me
I have watched myself grow over the years. I have come to realized that with all the self discovery, changes, challenges, disappointments and joy...where I started is far from where I am today.
I don't have space in my life to question a persons intentions or motives. It's just this simple...you are who you show me...and i will treat you accordingly. That being said I have been called difficult, kind, empathetic and a bitch..believe all of them...the version of me you get depends on you. I am a firm believer in subs being treated with respect and dignity while also providing structure and discipline. I understand the difference between someone being Dominant and being Domineering. A true Dominant is a person of good character, has great strength and dignity. Is never confused with being a bully or manipulative. His submissive is close to his heart. All levels of a submissives well-being is his priority. My personal life I worked on phd in pharmaceutical science. I am very conservative in my day to day life. A very feminine traditional woman. I love the 1950's housewife role, i practice it everyday. I am known as a mother, an empath, a homebody and one hell of a cook, all wrapped together by a morally questionable sense of humor.
I love supporting others in community and their personal life.
Member since
May 10, 2020
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