shortylotus
sub female

Iowa, United States
Age
48
About me
I’ve grown a lot over the years. Where I started is nowhere near where I am now.

I don’t question intentions anymore—you are who you show me you are, and I respond accordingly.

I’ve been called difficult, kind, empathetic, and a bitch. All are true. The version of me you get depends on you. I am absolutely a chaos gremlin by nature

I believe in respect, dignity, structure, and discipline. There’s a difference between being Dominant and domineering—one is rooted in character, the other in control. I value strength, integrity, and care.

In my personal life, I’m conservative, feminine, and traditional. I live a 1950s housewife lifestyle. I’m a mother, an empath, a homebody, and a damn good cook—with a morally questionable sense of humor.

I support people—both in community and in their personal lives.
Member since
May 10, 2020
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