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Is it a kink or fetish? And is there a difference :3

Kelpi
1 month ago • Nov 14, 2024
Kelpi • Nov 14, 2024
I have thought about this and talked about it with friends and old lovers. I have come to the conclusion that it is neither a kink or a fetish but a need. My need is to hear her come as much as possible. It is not something I want but a need that comes from deep inside me. I have seen women and men beg their partners to fill their ass up. The look on their faces as they were filled. I can't see it as a fetish or a kink the way they crave it want and need it seems so much more. I can see how some think it is a fetish or kink but there are some who go beyond that.

Think about something you like but is more than kink or fetish maybe a border line need to have.
RuleMaker​(dom male)
1 month ago • Nov 14, 2024
RuleMaker​(dom male) • Nov 14, 2024
Honestly, I use them pretty much interchangeably to mean "things I like in sex." Don't overthink it.
Softnote​(masochist female)
2 weeks ago • Dec 1, 2024
Enjoy the erotica , romance , dark passion with pain of finery  but has to have a feeling , mentally , physically , pure growth , respect and soul feeling. But if I am going to share with yin yang balance , balance with feminine with masculine by evolving together. Wake it up have to be able to light the fire. Love is rare, real is rare, so reserved . Leave to the imagination why it's called art because art can not be touched by all only by one who respects it and aligned crossed hearts. Treat thy life with value as art in return as well. Good side and sultry side but its mysterious but they can look but not touch only one gets it all the madness of love.








Madonna - Erotica
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WyhdvRWEWRw

The Making Of A Lady
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qDatwp48puE&t=353s
The ugly truth movie.


Safe sex is not always wearing a condom, It's being careful who you mix your soul with.


Yeah anyone can want it but takes that one special person to actually value you.

Not about who wants you. It's about values and respects you.

Safe sex is not always wearing a condom, It's being careful who you mix your soul with.


-mysterious-

Of, relating to, or being a religious mystery.
Arousing wonder or curiosity, especially by being difficult to explain or understand.
Of or pertaining to mystery; containing a mystery; difficult or impossible to understand; inexplicable; obscure; not revealed or explained; enigmatical; incomprehensible.

It's rare to that you find someone with enough emotional and mental patience and maturity to work through the sh#t with. Like actually communicate , and lose their ego because they value the connection more than their pride, You gotta leave your ego at the door in love. It's a must.


Something so imitate about handmade stuff , handmade bread , handmade presents , hand written letters , in a general intimacy and tenderness are stored in hands , in holding hands and playing with each other's fingers , warming each other's hands.

Passion take leading hand to lead the way. Feed my soul , arouse my mind , channel the connection , emotionally invested on soul level spark with growth. takes someone very special to wake it up what comes to the heart.

Just like flowers require water to keep them beautiful. People require love , honesty , respect , trust , passion energy to keep them beautiful too.Once we give that , then we just may find that the god and goddess we been looking for has been right in front of you us all along.

Love is not enough it needs aligned values, vision, and lifestyle in order to maintain any healthy relationship.

Feeling safe in someone's energy is a different type of intimacy. That feeling of peace and protection is really underrated.

with someone who will take care of you.
Not materialistically,
but take care of your soul, your well being. your heart, and everything that's you.

Compliments on appearance are nice , but when somebody compliments you as a person - you laugh , your personality , your heart - that's where it's at.

Dance , Sing , read , to each other , breathe together - communicate. Don't count on sex to be the door to intimacy. It's the other way around first to develop intimacy skills . Then make love to enjoy them.We all things have a story. And no matter how much work you've done on yourself. We all snap back together. So be easy on yourself. Growth is a dance. Not a light switch.Some just want good company, a person to vibe with , converse with and laugh without in a rush. Start off simple , and let the rest find itself.
Softnote​(masochist female)
2 weeks ago • Dec 1, 2024
To love at all is to be vulnerable
Intimacy is not who you let touch you. Intimacy is who you text at 3 am about your dreams and fears. Intimacy is giving someone your attention , when ten others people are asking for it. Intimacy is person always in the back of your mind , No matter how distracted you are.

Bring someone in to your world. But they willing to share with you express it with art treat like treasure to come in your world.

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Erotica
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2WUTp5xZvNo&t=26s

Vail of desire
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/ywneZZuGOdw

Not Myself Tonight
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wt-tHcQR67Y

S&M
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KdS6HFQ_LUc

ZAYN - PILLOWTALK
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C_3d6GntKbk


Erotique
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZTVEtCGDKL4&t=4s

Life and Lingerie
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4nfTtQo3OAQ


https://www.youtube.com/shorts/0OSNQ35juvY

Capital Letters
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pj6k-EFxqAI

Love Me Like You Do
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AJtDXIazrMo