True Slave Training Is .....

Sweetlydepraved​(masochist female){95%} • Nov 26, 2024

“Perfectly content” nope. I am usually 90% discontented 😂 Until we are living together I won’t be. It’s the strain of being in a long distance relationship for almost 3 years. My patience is worn thin.

lambsone • Nov 26, 2024

@Sweetlydepraved

I hear that loud and clear. Hopefully he'll get off the pot soon.

Miki​(masochist female) • Nov 26, 2024

As said often: "It's strictly up to the "master" and the "slave" in such a scenario.

There's no Official Rule Book that dictates a list of "Officially Sanctioned Do's and Don'ts" for M/s relationships, Rather, each individual situation is like a blob of clay or a blank canvas: To be crafted by the couple involved.

As for the blog dudes: Giving advice is cool, if they remember to keep comments in the spirit of Ideas and Suggesions, not going one cheek off the Porcelain Throne and talking out of their asses...

...And as always, , it's the job of the reader to keep what he or she needs and leave the rest... Kind of like the "Salad Bar of Life".

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Personally, as many might already know, I never, ever, did dynamics. But if I weren't such a hard headed Independent type as well as an unapologetic smart ass and unrepentant Brat, the role I would immediately choose would be as a sex slave, an object, with a duty to give pleasure to an owner and "his designees". (but don't ask me to cook. I know how to drool into pots and pans) ----- so unfortunately I ain't cut out for that shit.

But I can fantasize and wear out my toys instead, so there's that.

Cello Trance{for You} • Nov 26, 2024

Slave is in the heart of the submissive that desires it. It is up to the Dom, the Master to seek to satisfy the slaves desires and longings. To me, it is always a partnership. It only works if both parties are working together for the same goal, the same good.

You can both be very, very good, honest people and care for each other, support each other, and love each other, but if your goals are not the same in the relationship, it's probably not gonna last or work.

it only works when both people are desiring the same thing I have never desired a pure sexual object ... that's part of what I enjoy, but what gives me the most pleasure is to fulfill the other person's desires, and needs

I don't know if this helps. These are just random thoughts, but I do love the topic and I have always admired your profile page even though I have not always reached out to say so. God richest Blessings to you, my friend

Cello Trance{for You} • Nov 26, 2024

Here is another thought for you. I know that you are very committed Christian and Well read. I like to think of myself that way as well, but God knows our hearts. We as free people are to be slaves to Jesus. Jesus is our master. He loves us and cares for us and treats us so well, even though we don't deserve it. He takes care of us even when we can't take care of ourselves. That is our model.

We are to love, honor, and cherish each other, no matter what our roles are. we need to treat each other with love dignity and respect. I am not saying that I am perfect with this. I am not. I fail more often than I succeed… But I'm saying that is our example.

As for slaves, as with our relationship with Jesus, we willingly give ourselves to him because we sense his love and generous care for us. Hopefully that is what a slave would do in this lifestyle for her master because she senses that in him

lambsone • Nov 26, 2024

@Cello Trance

Thank you for your words of encouragement. And your second post is right on the money concerning our relationship to Christ. It gives me joy to hear someone else say it so succinctly.

lambsone • Nov 26, 2024

@Miki

Yep I'm finding that out in my research. I think I had the misconception that training was the same for everyone, but even though there are some commonalities at the base level, everything else is unique to the partners in the relationships. That settles some mysteries for me.