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shortylotus​(dom female){johnnyxsix} • Dec 10, 2024

Yeah we all have encountered the dial a doms..and when your fresh out of the gate you usually will fall for anything...I can remember something about placing an ice cube somewhere..slipping and falling on water and sending a video to my mom at 3am... lessons learned

The good thing about fake doms is they shed light on what you don't want in a dom...it's good you can actually distinguish between real and fake.. and if your really lucky like I was they can help create very awkward moments 😅

Softnote​(masochist female) • Dec 11, 2024

Just saying just sharing take what you feel take with a grain of salt. But life what you wake it but you must do the work Don't like the life your living then make a new one . Lazy you will get you a lazy bast type so do your the work and master yourself be real , be you , and love yourself and you will do better with life and time you will find the right people that are better for you.

Some are unaware but may not had the hand to lead them. But the magazine has some good advice for the new. But Doms you can not force connection then get mad if other person does feel it grow some no connection can be forced you wanna find someone take your time don't be horn dog and become better with love. Subs will grow interest if Doms take he time and if subs take the timer also.

Don't play Dumb you can do better with your brain wise up your better soul so shake it up good.
But saying you want 24/7 / TPE / with pain your in new beginnings with no consent and asking for it right away is more dangerous that you will get danger stranger something you did even know. Anything the new to the lifestyle yes need help for sure I know they might see things think that for them but until they get in the hot chair they will freak out once things are taken away if you get in the wrong hand you could lead yourself to injury knocked out unnourished and underweight then they kick out the car leave you at the er. Never say you're in pain , want to be 24/7. If you never tried it you need to learn not to happen over night. The wrong creep that gets their hands on you may not be good to you until they have you and abuse you won't be able to leave cause you could be left in a body bag your family finding out. There are parts of the body that can not be hit so it is good to learn. Start with soft to medium to hard to learn all the basics first as reading and learning videos and read the magazine on the gate. Master yourself as a Sub and Dom don't play the fool or you will end up alone. Desperation you will turn into getting with a loser that pretended to be something they are not. If you have been in an abusive relationship do not jump into another person. A person can not change your life only you can heal your life and make peace. No one going get you out abuse your adult you must be willing to leave yes people can help you but know one going to want to jump in to relationship with you they be willing to be friend or they will help you find a place. When you are young you may only think that a Dom is to take care of you but you must take care of you first. You do need to be safe and sane. You do wanna have friends and a loving relationship. You go out and do things someone lets you be you. It's about two people who hold the key and both need to use their brains to work together. My guy friend had this girl contact him she was engaged she wanted my friend to drive to different state to get her she did like him she just wanted to live in a cage my friend turned her down told her to get hold of the police they would help her I know someone people want a hand out but you gotta get your life in order no one is coming to safe you in this world nothing is free until you are learn to be free with yourself and make peace. People will only help you when you are willing for yourself not in a rush. I might enjoy pain but myself but got to know people over the years and found some friends ones nothing sexual just training and trying things. Never chase just attract go by flow. You young/new ones when you act desperate it does look good if you act like this the good people you wanna attract will fear away so think before you leap. Person should be your peace make you feel safe and protected that how it goes. Submissive does not mean brainless it means you use your brain and speak up for your feelings and so on because communication is key for Dom to lead and allow a sub to grow and mature themself. Sex is not everything you need to be able to find great connection and feeling and humor someone that click with you that on the matter of finding someone that matches up to you. The whole 24/7 thing is more you must life your life in reality and then at the end of the day be the sultry sub. Doms even have to try some sub stuff so that they the sub will be safe.

Understanding The Difference Between “I Like You” and “I Love You.”

“When you like a flower, you just pluck it. But, when you love a flower, you water it daily. One who understands this, understands life.”

Leading hand should be your mentor , guide , and refine you: groom you to obedience , ladylike and subservient that they are proud of you. But should never try to change your essence


What really crave of love , is finding someone with whom we feel safe to reveal our truest , most authentic self , without the fear of judgment.

“please don’t touch my heart, unless you plan to stay”

— Unknown

Be their calm , Be their home , Don't be another battle they have to fight.

You can't force chemistry to exist where it doesn't in the someway you can't deny it when it does.

Manners matter. Good looks are a bonus.Humor is a must.

The responsibility of love: To keep another hearts safe.

This song take with you in life. In my life - Beetles
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QR1CwJTXUIk


“We don’t read & write poetry because it’s cute. We read & write poetry because we are members of the human race. And the human race is filled with passion. And medicine, law, business, engineering, these are noble pursuits & necessary to sustain life, but poetry, beauty, romance, love, these are what we stay alive for”
-Dead Poets Society

Softnote​(masochist female) • Dec 12, 2024

Just cause been two messages know one should demand you jump on a app would be best to use chat room can talk in private message and stay on until it’s mostly invested before getting anything. If you do go on app set some ground rules no nudes no sexual favors. If they can’t respect these request good luck. Any demands of nudes or video with remark saying they will hang up the call and leave sorry but know one can demand you know one should respect people have better value or it’s good luck. They have sex addiction that’s not your problem it only sex they talk about but can’t have mannerly conversation , or ask how your day is or good morning they not really being sincere or acting like they are
Pursuing. Let them know ( thanks but get a call girl ). Just cause you are female no man owns you they did not rule this place , just because they message does mean a instant connection. Women are here for them self but respect and trust has to be there and shown with blue prints. Some jokers just here for kicks nothing long term so know the signs they will slip and talk about them selfs past partners that they been shut down well they won’t tell you why but their behavior will tell you. They insult their friends talk crap about others and strangers and think they are Something saying they are attractive a lot but will talk smack cause they could be doing to you with remarks like getting pissy about little things you did laugh over a cheesy joke , they lied slipped said they drink they drinking wine whole bottle daily ( closet drinker ) and drinking going out they need help AA. Not your problem they have bad habit you should have to pay f it they should have been honest worked on them self. Best waking away lying is break of trust but bad habits is will not establish a relationship nether will it last. But when someone talks about them self all the time but they will call you names like being sweet but really words keep you weak and saying you should eat this or lose weight this when called person of character or Conversation narcissistic meaning they don’t care about you or your feelings they want you for their own pleasure they have ugly ego they need to work on thier insecurities not take things out on other see them signs. If they tell you to calm down take deep breath when you’re fine making you think you have mental problem when you don’t excuse your self from matter you don’t need this crap if they act this way they want you feel weak them strong it’s bullshit bye. Thier no free hand outs tax them. Then they play O going to my friends to drink but say they will calm you back they went to drink with there buddies never ignore women she will play your game better and leave nicely it’s how you treat people it you have bad behavior but don’t make someone feel safe have a nice ride being alone a women can leave do better. Hour go by ladies keep your self busy right turn off the next day tell them you wish them well like a lady no hard feelings guys but don’t mess with a Women cause you never get that same respect and loyal person. Women of if some guys can’t do it right find a women they are better lovers. Not calling all guys out but if you wanna women then be grown stop acting liking frat house 🏠 gets old.

Softnote​(masochist female) • Dec 12, 2024

Gotta man-up cause women will only put up so much. If the guy afraid to talk about marriage or long term changes the subject they are not the one. Live in it guys just a maid and sex don’t fall for it’s a vanilla exude or thinking it’s long term it’s only when they want you for they are use. They say they wanna relocate you they want to you to move to them. Live in means they will ignore you , leave in hotel , or room, hide you , she just a friend don’t fall for the live in scam it’s not love. Curvy/Skinny women just saying men have fetish of women looking you
Young or body type if they only offer live run fast as you can. They only after a fetish how you look to look young or body but can’t get in your mind or soul no love run walk away. They will only play video games and ignore you only fine family and friends time leave you on the site. Growth Dom will not be afraid to show off take you out in public but clown to jerky if there insecurities to Keep you they deserve a blow up doll be sure to send them one after you leave no return address. 💥 Bam . Grown Dom should meet you first so you feel safe and bring a friend no if or buts this is your safety gps and give friends and family your whereabouts should be in day light hours. They want a sub they need to pursue you or lose you takes few meetings and one to 2 years or engagement and courtship before moving or relocating A grown Dom will never ask you to pay rent tell you have to pay your not a roommate if Long term fine you do some things but sun has own they need to live or dom gives them allowance. A sub not a maid or your mother so help
Around hire someone get baby sitter at times they are your treasure so date them keep chasing them to keep them happy.

Before you get sick your body will whisper about its fatigue.

Before you break up, your lover will whisper her requests.

Before your business goes bankrupt, your customers will whisper their complaints.

If you don’t listen to the whispers, you’ll be forced to hear the screams.

Softnote​(masochist female) • Dec 12, 2024

No Submissive is a live in that’s final all Subs know what your getting in to Gotta be long term to marriage or no continuing. Because a partner meant as a long term even in household just as like 1950s if gotta be partnership love or out question. Doms you wanna sub then start acting like one show it. Cause a those silicone dolls are 5k and living breathing one is better real flesh. If you can’t act like a Good one then buy a blow up doll shipping and handling you can marry that.

Softnote​(masochist female) • Dec 12, 2024

And financially never share accounts. Both should have own only thing have third one shared were goes to Pay bills only. Just to keep it safe. Unless your getting married then you share but understand about saving not buying silly things and new cars and things go in debt. Submissive should also want to go hack to school or work from home or volunteer not watching tv eating bon bon all day. Be active sub have ambition to be sub of the house do your share time and place but someone gotta do it. Does matter if Dom has big or small house be blessed and be thankful. Things don’t mean much but person is priceless so cherish the moments. No models here real people models have a makeup
Artist they don’t wake up
That. Life is about aging you want to grit up with this person. Does matter how someone looks how someone treats you and respects you inside and out if you wear glasses expect everyone to be perfect your not perfect ether your blind so what how you came to this world just love how you are and people. But if you want love be love or in your end you will be in heart hate wishing the love you use to have you should treated them better. I don’t anyone just with them love and peace anger will never settle but settle with peace.

Softnote​(masochist female) • Dec 12, 2024

What is real love when you find person that’s takes you for you shows you things with love with a bond and openness of oneness that is priceless can’t be bought. Based on true story Beautiful piece series Ruyi's Royal Love in the palace. One alone is enough. https://m.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLy8WDOJkSFFyiL8W8323OgwfI7oS11I1q New movie called babgirl with Nicole Kidman yes it’s lifestyle movie preview https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=z3Hmpa1mgKQ&pp=ygURYmFieSBnaXJsIHRyYWlsZXI%3D