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FemmeFatale​(switch gender fluid)
2 months ago • Dec 29, 2024

Searching for your favorite tips and tricks

As it says, I want to hear from any and everyone. I want to know any and all pleasurable tips and tricks that I don't. For slight context I have been a Domme for only a few years. My ex-girlfriend awakened it. We did plenty of exploring and I was overly confident with her. I have a new playtoy now. He's inexperienced but eager. We've played a few times and have another session set. I've been doing my own research among the things that we enjoy (sensory deprivation, bondage, impact play, pleasure Domme, and more). I have talked to him, asked him what he's enjoyed or would like to try. He's slightly lacking in the feedback because he likes it all and wants to try anything I'm willing. I want to make our following sessions better than he could imagine. I have a few new toys arriving but talk to me, guys. I don't have a cock and balls, well not biologically, so I don't want to be too rough and hurt him but I am a sadistic fuck and he takes pain like a champ.
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Cello Trance​{for You}Verified Account
Cello Trance​{for You}Verified Account
2 months ago • Jan 1, 2025
Cello Trance​{for You}Verified Account • Jan 1, 2025
Have you ever tried hypnosis? I’ve been a Hypno Dom for 30+ years. The things that you can do with that are endless, but you have to learn how to do it.
House Talion​(dom male)
2 months ago • Jan 3, 2025
House Talion​(dom male) • Jan 3, 2025
Make all private time with him start with him kneeling at your feet till he's wearing all cuffs and a collar. Leave all tools and toys out for him to see so he understands all possible options. Then do what feels best
Steellover​(sub male)
2 months ago • Jan 7, 2025
Steellover​(sub male) • Jan 7, 2025
I can't speak to your dynamic as your plaything may be into different things and respond differently than some.

A lot of D/s play is the psychological aspect, which includes verbal domination as well as the physical aspects. Harsh, direct commands. Verbal degradation and humiliation, putting your sub in his place, letting him know he is inferior to you. Eye contact restrictions- He is not allowed to look any higher than your feet or knees. Let him know he is your bitch, your slut, that he is inferior and cannot satisfy you. Make him crawl or kneel in front of you. The verbal and psychological aspects of domination are, for me, as much of a turn-on as the physical acts that go with it.

Now, some of this may not be his cup of tea, particularly the harsh verbal humiliation or command aspect. While I may think this is hot, he may not. This is something you might want to communicate with him before hand.