Is Height a Fetish for you?

Bunnie • Oct 15, 2024

On reflection, yes, it seems so. I wouldn’t call it a fetish, however, I do tend to be more attracted to men taller and bigger in stature than me. Is it a deal breaker? No, I have dated/played with men of all shapes and sizes. Long term though, my partners have all been a fair chunk taller, and more solidly built (not “muscly gym” built though… I like some softness to snuggle against 😊).

Halakur • Oct 17, 2024

Hmm.

yes.. it can be..

from 1 perspective.. being a quite all myself.. seeing "6feet" tall woman towering me and so on is, yes a fetish in a way... turning me to feel myself little, brittle, vulnerable.. ooh..the rush..

Or.. the other way.. small...petite woman who can use her words, they way she carries herself, posture, gestures etc.. how that can turn me to feel vulnerable..

So. Height as alone,, no --
BUT.. combine that with something else.. dynamic.. setting, character...
Yes.. it can make me feel like my veins are filled with flaming mercury and it makes me feel so alive!

ControlYourHole​(dom male) • Oct 20, 2024

While I generally prioritize a sub's mindset and desire to learn over height/hair color/etc, yes height is just as important as any physical characteristic in terms of what turns me on...well her being in shape/fairly thin is number one physically, but her being short is a close number 2 attracting factor. For a couple reasons:

- the sexual pleasure advantage- a woman who loves being dominated generally will be more aroused if her man is much taller and stronger than her. Being picked up, carried upstairs to the bed, & generally manhandled gets my wife super wet, which of course makes it more enjoyable for me. I'm 5'8 and she's 4'11 so that's easy for me. If I had a 6'2 women's basketball player that would feel difficult and awkward for us both. A woman like that needs a Shaq-sized man😂

-the mental/spiritual D/s advantage- a sub wants to look UP to her man, not down. Yes, mentally look up to him for guidance but also just PHYSICALLY having to gaze upward to look him in his eyes is a constant reminder of the special dynamic he has given her. Especially for TPE couples like me & my wife & also for sadist/masochist dynamics, the constant reminder that she couldn't control her Dom or resist Him even if she wanted to adds a huge level of excitement and also comfort.

It's cool to see that many others feel similarly...great question to bring up😎

boustbob​(sub male) • Jan 10, 2025

At 5’11 myself, when seeing a tall female dom 6’ or above my heart skips a beat.
So yes it is very much one for me. “Looking up” at my partner puts me in a space of vulnerability and obedience and longing to be led by the Dom.
It’s one of the main things I look for in power play

B L O N D I E​(sub female) • Jan 10, 2025

I'm a 6-foot tall woman and I have never been with a man who is taller than me. Everyone has been shorter even in my vanilla experience. It's simply a numbers game.

Although being with someone taller is a fantasy, the reality is that it doesn't stop a man from being dominant. It doesn't stop him from asserting his authority when he needs to. My last dominant was six inches shorter. The only adjustment he had to make was to tell me to spread my knees wider when he was behind me so I would be at his level--or my feet if we were standing up.

Being submissive to a shorter man doesn't affect my mindset at all and I don't think it affects his, either.

mysterysoul​(masochist female) • Jan 11, 2025

I don't really go by height or size how they carry themselves self not a fantasy in my eyes.  How someone carries them self I do like someone a bit taller but more of a primal thing of exchange of protection and safety that habits its nature.

5f5  199 pounds soft curvy sensual seduction way one carries them self I just like to carry it with the womanly essence still with a mind and soul with soul connection with feeling to align with the other.  I like real raw touch and energy so to look up to someone I know my place under them and why they lead.

Everyone has their own allure love how they are know ones perfect know is the same. If we was all the same be boring better to be original then a copy.

Kelpi • Jan 11, 2025

I have been with tall short and in-between. I do have a fetish for women under 5' but I have found it is what is inside her mind that does it for me.

JenX • Jan 11, 2025

I'm 5'8 flat-footed.
Height hasn't been a factor in scenes or power dynamics.

I am more attracted to taller lovers. My favorite positions are face-to-face, and my legs are 42 inches groin to toe.
My legs feel like an awkward third party, always in the way, with a more compact lover.

ControlYourHole​(dom male) • Jan 14, 2025

Oh nobody has mentioned an obvious potential fetish here- a sub who's a little person (like significantly under 4'5)😍apparently it is safe for them to have sex with full sized men and can even bear normal size children with them...just IMAGINE how tight that little pussy and throat would be! Plus her being so easy to hang upside down around your neck while you lick her little clit till she squirts haha...So a potential sub being THAT ultra-short would make me very turned on indeed

House Talion​(dom male) • Jan 14, 2025

Love me a thin Lil thing that's just tall enough to be bent over for all the right reasons