Multi-gender Attraction Questions

Multi-gender Attraction Questions

lambsone • Jan 11, 2025

I was curious about how folks handle their sexual attraction to genders other than their own. This is completely open ended, no completely right or wrong answers.

These are just some starter questions for conversation. And I have numbered them only for ease of finding them in the dialog rather than buried in a paragraph. Feel free to share anything even if your comments don't address the questions I've posted to start us off.

1. What do you think about when you are interacting? Do you think about the person/people you are with or only about the sexual arousal you are experiencing at the time?

2. Do you have any difficulty dividing your heart/mind between the genders you are playing with or is it a natural flow?

3. Do you find it easy to transition heart/mind to various genders?

4. Anything else at all that you'd like to share about how interacting with various genders affects you? Positive benefits or challenges you have to overcome.

Looking forward to some healthy and non-judgemental conversation.

TwinkleEyes • Jan 20, 2025

1. I think about the person. I like deep connections. Gender doesn't matter to me. I am highly sexual masturbate 3-9X a day. So I used to think about sexual pleasure as the #1. I no longer do. I have a harem ob BOBs

2. It's a natural flow.

3. I don't think about it being easy or hard dependent on their genders. I find it hard to have a deep connection with someone who doesn't have a deep connection with themselves.

4. I believe that being able to have a deep connection with someone that turns into a physical pleasure is a special thing. Gender doesn't affect that. I believe it is fear that drives people to dislike others that have a preference to their own gender. It is a sad thing that breeds hate, discrimination, and violence at times. Humanity needs less of these and more love/peace.

lambsone • Jan 20, 2025

@TwinkleEyes
"I find it hard to have a deep connection with someone who doesn't have a deep connection with themselves."

That is a very cool thought. I agree that would make a difference.

"I believe it is fear that drives people to dislike others that have a preference to their own gender."

I value your perspective but for some of us it really has nothing to do with fear. It is just how our sexual appetites are wired. I think if folks want to see more genders accepted, they have to accept the preferences that all genders have. That's fair isn't it?

TwinkleEyes • Jan 21, 2025

Yes, Lambs. Though I am not referring to our personal choices for sexual contact. I’m talking about the hate people spew at those who aren’t heterosexual or some other gender besides male and female.

It’s fear of the unknown that causes hate to me.

lambsone • Jan 21, 2025

@TwinkleEyes

I'm glad you clarified the fear comment. I thought you were talking about the personal sexual tastes of individuals. Whew!!!

Just to clarify to everyone, my original post questions were about individual experiences between consenting adults, that I thought folks would enjoy sharing about and not about societal fears and their resulting actions towards gender differences. The latter is certainly not to be seen as trifling, just not the original intent of the post.