The Lifestyle Outside of Marriage

The Lifestyle Outside of Marriage

TopekaDom​(dom male) • Feb 17, 2025

This being a holiday here in the US, I get the day off to not do anything around the house, and coupled with the Extreme Cold, I am stuck in the house. That means I have time to think up new things. Today's subject is:

How do you handle engaging in the Lifestyle while being married to someone who is not your Dom/me?

(This isn't a thread to question how others handle their marriage. If you have come here to rag on people, keep that shit to your self)

I had a long time friend who both her and her husband were in the lifestyle but he was NOT her Dom. They had an agreement where each could, and would, find lifestyle partners outside their marriage. Last I heard, it worked very well (she went batshit crazy and I quit talking to her a number of years ago).

I, myself, have worked with s types who were married to others. All the partners knew what was going on, save for one. That one was a very interesting story (and one of my favorites).

I would love to hear your story, but know there are going to be ones that you can not tell. Which is fine. As always, this thread is to make others think.