bdsamworld(sub female){collared}
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2 weeks ago •
Mar 11, 2025
As a brat I can say from experience that no punishment is a good punishment. Sit them down, have a talk with them, figure out where this "unruly behavior" is coming from. Do some deep dive work. I know doesn't seem like a punishment but depending on the "unruly behavior" like not completing tasks, maybe they have a lot going on or the time needs to be adjusted for task completion.
Now if you're looking for funishments there are PLENTY on forums everywhere. This is common question. And hey there is no problem with funishments... Just own it. |
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JenX
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2 weeks ago •
Mar 15, 2025
I totally agree with bdsmworld, that no punishment is a good punishment, and deep dive work can help root out out "unruly behavior."
Along these lines, it may be helpful to define the privileges of ownership and focus on rewards and consequences to condition behavior. Here is an example: It is a privilege when Master cums with kitten. Master's orgasm after a scene is rewarding for kitten. Master finishes the scene, gets kitten off, and gently explains that he will not cum tonight and reward his kitten, because earlier X behavior was not acceptable. (This is a true story and it worked) |
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MissBonnie(dom female){oz}
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2 weeks ago •
Mar 15, 2025
TopekaDom wrote: Simple way is to quit talking to them.
My not so humble opinion is brats are attention wanters. They think it is all cutesy and shit to be like that. So don't give them the attention til they act properly. Brats aren't for everyone and i'm one of them. I'm somewhat in the same line of thinking as TopekaDom act bad, i'm not interested (I raised my kids). I don't do "brat" but do find the dynamic interesting in how it's handled and what others get out of it. I'm looking forward to reading how it is handled by those who like/love the dynamic. I guess the constant tug of war for power could be an attractant??? don't get me wrong I'm also not into doormats. I do need some fight for the TPE to happen. |
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Little Vixie(sub female){Mgh30}
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2 weeks ago •
Mar 16, 2025
All I have to say is that the silent treatment is the worst thing to do. Unless it's consented to, it's a mind fuck. I had a dom do this crap and it was because we'd do some really rough play, the. He'd ignore me because he "needed time to recoup". Opted out of the dynamic because at the end of the day it wasn't worth my time trying to explain to him that I couldn't handle cnc play then being ignored.
Topeka a while ago basically stated that he doesnt view being a brat as apart of bdsm so I don't exactly view his view point to be genuine, rather than biased |
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MissBonnie(dom female){oz}
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2 weeks ago •
Mar 16, 2025
Little Vixie wrote: All I have to say is that the silent treatment is the worst thing to do. Unless it's consented to, it's a mind fuck. I had a dom do this crap and it was because we'd do some really rough play, the. He'd ignore me because he "needed time to recoup". Opted out of the dynamic because at the end of the day it wasn't worth my time trying to explain to him that I couldn't handle cnc play then being ignored.
Topeka a while ago basically stated that he doesnt view being a brat as apart of bdsm so I don't exactly view his view point to be genuine, rather than biased sorry to hear you had been ignored when you needed more LittleVixie. That had to of been tough on you. It can we hard on both sides of the whip when needs aren't met for aftercare. Some times dynamics just don't work out no how bad we want them too or vet them prior. I'm glad you could "opt out" I'm also glad you've established what you needed from the scene/s. Even with bad times we can learn from them 
Re my personal comment: I want to clarify "I don't do brats" ..I wouldn't put MYSELF in the situation to play with a brat, since it doesn't match my play style (to begin with) would of been a better way to word my post. I'm not implying I would "ignore" the brat because it wouldn't get to the level of scene or play....I simply wouldn't encourage their interest to begin with. |
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House Talion(dom male)
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2 weeks ago •
Mar 17, 2025
Bind them and let them watch you masturbate while you look at someone else.
Kiss them everywhere except where they want it. Don't let them please you. Black box- ears plugged n muffed, eyes padded n masked. Make them depend on you for everything like that. Screw someone from behind while they clean the brat orally. Bind them to a chair, gagged. Make them watch n listen while you slowly eat their favorite ice cream. Since most like spankings, spank yourself or someone else while they watch. |
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Miki(masochist female)
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2 weeks ago •
Mar 17, 2025
House Talion wrote: Bind them and let them watch you masturbate while you look at someone else.
Kiss them everywhere except where they want it. Don't let them please you. Black box- ears plugged n muffed, eyes padded n masked. Make them depend on you for everything like that. Screw someone from behind while they clean the brat orally. Bind them to a chair, gagged. Make them watch n listen while you slowly eat their favorite ice cream. Since most like spankings, spank yourself or someone else while they watch. --------------------------- You're a bad man! You're a very bad man! I ought to send you to the Corn! -------------------------- I used to write in here that I'm an unrepentant brat, (might still be in my profile blah. I'll check and fix that another time) I'm not active in the kink business these days anyway-- but ....."After Further Review" I might not be. I'm more like an indomitable smart ass and accomplished practical joker (also retired) I did not seek attention actually. I merely got shits and giggles out of frosting guys' asses. |
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