Being a "Dom"

Grizzledoldman​(dom male) • Mar 12, 2025

They do Unchained. There is a Chat Rooms link in the banner across the top of the page. Sometimes It's quiet, sometime raucus. And the subject matter can range across everything

The replies in the forums are more focused on the initial question asked...Or should be (as I talk about something else)

SkyeWriter​(dom female) • Mar 27, 2025

So...a couple of things:

First, you need to ask yourself what you are getting from staying in this relationship and whether your needs are being met. If you are not getting the things you really want and need, it's time to move on.

Next, we really have to consider whether someone who lets others seriously take advantage of them, doesn't have an acceptable and clear set of limits about the way people interact with them, and doesn't pay heed to someone they care about expressing their needs can actually be a responsible, sane, caring Dominant.

Just something to think about.

MasterDarcy​(dom male) • Apr 3, 2025

If he isn't prioritising your needs, your care and you, in general, then it's dereliction of duty and you're well within your rights to give him an ultimatum that he either upset his game or you go out and find a man (or woman) who lives up to the title "Dom."