Contracts

Contracts

angelaffliction​(sub female) • May 31, 2025

How do you write one. What do you put in it? Anyone have any examples

Villanelle​(staff) • May 31, 2025

You might find this useful - there's an example version there too: https://thecage.co/magazine,242.html

angelaffliction​(sub female) • May 31, 2025

Thank you!

Miki • Jun 2, 2025

Templates are great starting points! Then a pair can add and subtract anything they mutually decide.

All kinds of possibilities emerge when both know that these are "contracts of the heart" and not legal ly binding ones so, guys and dolls, be creative!!

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Just my opinion

dollMaker​(dom male) • Jun 2, 2025

A potentially good guide, outline, foundation tool for building mutual responsibility, what each person brings to the dynamic, outline procedures for further negotiation, rules, punishments and anything that can be added into the involvement.

However, only any use if used, respected and an actual tool, orherwise not worth the virtual, or real paper its on, I have experience of that happening, so would be less interested in creating one these days as I once was. The ones I had, helped create in the past also had a full actitivity, boundary/limits list built in to it.

Also worth pointing out, these have zero legal value.

Kelpi • Jun 2, 2025

Contracts are great when done right. Outline what you want will do and won't do. Put in limits needs wants and responsibilities for both. Doing this gives you a reason to stay and leave. Adding a clause that allows you to sit and talk about the last quarter and how well it when. This will give both a chance to let the other know what the other thinks and see if it is going well or what needs to be changed.