Blocking

Brattypupgirl​(sub female) • Jun 4, 2025

If somebody messages multiple times with no prior convo that's a cause for blocking as it can feel like harassment. Or a message that directly says something you listed as a trigger/hard limit in your bio is an instant block for me. It can be used as a tool to 'ghost' people for whatever reason. I would imagine some might be:

- If someone was on here for 'fun' and convo got too real
- Married/partnered already and this was more of a porn or validation site for them
- If you show patterns of behavior that person sees as either immature, not kink safe, etc.
( A crude example would be a man messaged me asking if I had a champagne bottle and if I was anal training to try to use that) It was a first message, sexualizing without consent and was dangerous because items like that require prep, time, removing metal and paper, etc.
- A general 'hi' message could get you blocked as well. If you don't have the effort to put in a real conversation with somebody and just send a 'Hi' message or something like that, you may end up blocked so that the person doesn't have to engage with low effort messages.

Try to imagine it like a dating app, you unmatch with someone if you aren't a good fit. Blocking is a tool that some use openly, others use sparingly. The cause is relevant to the person, gender, types of attention they want, etc.

House Talion​(dom male) • Jun 4, 2025

I've met many ppl here that message without checking my profile. They want to dominate me and be worshiped, they demand tribute and services.
Some subs on the other hand constantly harass me asking for money, grub hub, paid tickets, to buy their crap.

Apparently no, go away, get reported, or go fornicate yourself doesn't work

Had one guy that wanted help making his unknowing wife turn tricks and simply msgd good morning every day for a month.

Then some lady named Marshal makes a new account every month trying to reinstate an old chat I had with her previous profile

TheWhorelock​(dom male) • Jun 5, 2025

I block for a thousand reasons. Usually just because I don't want someone's thoughts in my feed. I don't see any reason to feel accountable to internet strangers about why I'm taking their presence out of my attention. We aren't friends or even acquaintances. Everyone should feel 100% empowered to hold their own space in absolutely whatever way they see fit, and we don't owe each other shit.

Now, if you've had a conversation and are getting to know one another and *then* block someone, it's a social statement and can be very unkind and disrespectful, but that's specific to the context.

Miki • Jun 5, 2025

We covered all this already!!

TheWhorelock​(dom male) • Jun 5, 2025

curses, foiled again from protecting myself from humans!