chattel(sub female)
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7 months ago •
Jun 11, 2025
Travelled NY to San Francisco by plane, the furthest by time was a 7 hours car trip.
There needs to be a lot of common interests discussed in advance for me to that kind of travel along with an expectation that it may be a relocation situation in the future |
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7 months ago •
Jun 11, 2025
Traveled to meet my first Dom from St. Louis to Vegas over 20 years ago. After meeting, I found a nursing position in Vegas and relocated to live with my Dom. Would I travel? It depends on our dynamic and truth. I would travel to meet but not sure i would relocate now.
When I connect to a Dom with like goals and mind, then traveling is not a problem. Just be safe when doing so. |
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Nitrev(dom male)
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7 months ago •
Jun 12, 2025
Everyone is at most a plane ride away. What matters is what their area is like. How are the laws? How are the people? Is there a city or somewhere remote? What do you do about work? What other limitations exist that could make it not feasible?
These are the questions to answer |
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Lupocabo(sadist male)
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7 months ago •
Jun 13, 2025
I roll over in our bed to give her a good morning kiss.
A relationship for me is if we life together. Of course you can travel to meet to hell and back. But if you don't end up in arms reach at the end of the day, it is just a one night stand with extended aftercare. |
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Ms MaryJane
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7 months ago •
Jun 13, 2025
Lupocabo wrote: I roll over in our bed to give her a good morning kiss.
A relationship for me is if we life together. Of course you can travel to meet to hell and back. But if you don't end up in arms reach at the end of the day, it is just a one night stand with extended aftercare. The thing is you have to start somewhere. You have to have the first meet. Of course some of us have that end goal of living together...and that takes time. Some are ok with having a Dom/me or subbie who just rolls into town when they are there for business. It is called doing what works for them. So to call someone's LDR/dynamic a one night stand with extended aftercare is rather rude. |
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Lupocabo(sadist male)
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7 months ago •
Jun 13, 2025
Ms MaryJane wrote: Lupocabo wrote: I roll over in our bed to give her a good morning kiss.
A relationship for me is if we life together. Of course you can travel to meet to hell and back. But if you don't end up in arms reach at the end of the day, it is just a one night stand with extended aftercare. The thing is you have to start somewhere. You have to have the first meet. Of course some of us have that end goal of living together...and that takes time. Some are ok with having a Dom/me or subbie who just rolls into town when they are there for business. It is called doing what works for them. So to call someone's LDR/dynamic a one night stand with extended aftercare is rather rude. I am sorry, that was not my intend. There is nothing wrong with one night stands or situationships. If this is what both want. What i want to say is, this is not for me and i won't, no i can't accept that. It would hurt me too much. If the needs are not in balance, for both, it is a recipe for emotional turmoil. |
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Bluebanana(masochist female)
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7 months ago •
Jun 14, 2025
Lupocabo wrote: I roll over in our bed to give her a good morning kiss.
A relationship for me is if we life together. Of course you can travel to meet to hell and back. But if you don't end up in arms reach at the end of the day, it is just a one night stand with extended aftercare. Yes! Absolutely this |
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