Fitness BDSM

Fitness BDSM

Mk0821​(switch male) • Jun 16, 2025

Hi all. This is part question part discussion related. I've been thinking about fitness domination recently as a specific part of a D/S relationship. By this I mean controlling a sub fitness regime, tasks, goals, etc in a similar way to diet control but with exercise.

I know there are many categories of BDSM.. so many that I could never know them all... But I almost never see much if anything about fitness domination. I wanted to get others opinions on why this doesn't seem more present within BDSM communities? Is it simple more niche, or is it considered as under an already established BDSM category? I realise this isn't inherently a fetish, and just a side category, but I just expected to see more of it.

People with experience in this also I'd like to hear from.

MidSummerDream​(neither female)​{BothHold🗝} • Jun 17, 2025

It should be safe and sane, nothing that is going to hurt the nervous system.


Healthy and Safe out of anything anything abuse wise will only lead to abuse and trauma.


Give the sub a routine, have a conversation, agree on things. Unless they wearing devices like a service sub doing tasks. Do it out of fun and happiness for both work out with them have them clean naked or do tasks.


Help them find a good videos have them do it in front of you, but support their goals and dreams, help them to grow and bloom.


You have to be careful because best to take them to a doctor learn their health and back history and get them to a good nutritionist because a person still has to eat and live never starve someone everyone body is different they need to be able to survive you need vitamins as well as supplements if they need it. Only do it to help do not try to change them how you want them to look they need to be happy how they want to have them keep skin but do to be healthy. Some do it for themselves you want to be part of it be happy to even be part of them support them and support each other being sexy.

But Sex Exerciser Never gets old if you both love making and BDSM can help, too.

Pilates , yoga Hit Exercise. They can wear clothes sheer or tight but not too tight but show off a bit as long as they like as well have them try on things that make them feel good as well. Allow them to keep a mind they need to talk to you, tell you how they feel as feelings. You don't wanna damage your sub ever so take care of it or you could lose it that chance.

MissBonnie​(dom female)​{oz} • Jun 19, 2025

there are loads of pay to play Fitness/life coach Dommes. A quick google will find you several

Mk0821​(switch male) • Jun 19, 2025

I see what you mean, however I was thinking not necessarily a fitness coach and Domme combined, but just fitness being part of kink.

I probably didn't explain that very well.

Bruised Bambi​(sub gender queer) • Jun 19, 2025

I can definitely see this being part of someones rules. Maybe more of a caregiver role? It feels similar to the ol' "Eat 3 meals" and "Go to bed at ___"
I go to the gym and I would 100% love changing up the head space of going to the gym because I know I should to a task I need to complete because Daddy said so. I'd probably get a better rush from it in that regard.

Mk0821​(switch male) • Jun 20, 2025

Yes Bruised Bambi! That's much more what I was thinking... and way better explained thank you.

I'm sure this exists within many people's d/s relationships. I just don't see it mentioned that often, which is a shame.

MasterDomDok​(sadist male)​{you?} • Jun 20, 2025

Back in the early days of the internet, I subscribed to this Domme soliciting ways to humiliate her femsub. The first thing she did wad chop it's t-shirt to just below the bottom of the braless tits, point out at a phone booth, a mile away, command was to phone from that booth within 8 minutes. A nice little run, flapping slapping, embarassed, but she made it.

Sweetlydepraved​(masochist female)​{Claimed } • Jun 20, 2025

Daddy controls my fitness activities and diet. I like it because I don’t have to think about it, I just do what I’m told. He also has me on a fuck ton of vitamins, and monitors my water. He decides when I drink alcohol and how much. He lets me smoke weed now and then with him. Oddly enough when I’m high my gag reflex goes completely away. That’s always fun.

chattel​(sub female) • Jun 21, 2025

My experience regarding fitness domination is that it's a very very small facet of a larger, more complete dynamic. At least for MaleDom /FemaleSub relationships. Diet control is more common than an exercise schedule I think.

When I was more active in local BDSM community activities, this did seem more common when the sub was male.

MasterDomDok​(sadist male)​{you?} • Jun 21, 2025

As a lifelong blob, I have learned that the two, exercise and diet both are totally misunderstood as weight loss. Our ancestors food soruces created the 4 blood dypes, so matching yours to theirs makes a body much happier.

Dr. Peter D'Adamo, Eat Right 4for Your Type. Yes, exercise shows up in there, 4 types.