Spirited Red
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8 months ago •
May 17, 2025
I found that living a D/s relationship with the right person takes you to a level so much deeper than a normal relationship. If you have not lived it, it is truly hard to explain. It can be one of the most rewarding and full filling relationships in your life. It does not happen right off, it is something you grow into with time. Take the time to learn each other, just like a normal relationship you may have ups and downs but communication and trust will get you through. Communication, Trust and respect go both ways. If you live with these 3 things you will go far in your relationship and in life.
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Goat(dom male)
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8 months ago •
May 18, 2025
So, ideally speaking, not much would need to change. After establishing rules to adhere to and well, just setting ground rules etc; nothing should change drastically. That being said any and all changes should be for the better. An example of this might be for instance, say your sub has an issue with anxiety attacks or something along the lines of that. A change that would be most welcome would be something like more aftercare or a dedicated aftercare area. Or simply setting the groundwork for them to combat those anxiety attacks and have a place or something to show them that they are safe and cared for. In my own opinion a BDSM relationship (doesn't matter the dynamic) is the same as any other relationship. If anything changes, it should be for the better for everyone involved.
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Sir Andrew(dom male)
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8 months ago •
May 19, 2025
Hard to say, really depends on her a lot, but mostly she will no longer be in control of her schedule, clothing, and body. she will have new daily routines, schedules, and tasks. plus no longer be in control of her body and have to do whatever i say.
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SirsBabyDoll(sub female){🍕+☕}
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8 months ago •
May 19, 2025
House Talion wrote: As owned and collared she is my property and I value my property. So by her taking care of herself better she's taking care of my property which most certainly pleases me.
That argument saved my life once by cutting through a drunk blackout. |
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TopekaDom(dom male){Chaos }
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8 months ago •
May 21, 2025
Oh
and wear knee pads more. Not so much for blow jobs, but to walk around on all fours. |
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House Talion(dom male)
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8 months ago •
May 21, 2025
Since collaring my sub she has stopped asking for my permission to have an orgasm. Granted it was cute before, but jow it shows how much she has grown into her better self by our time together.
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CollegeGuyD(dom male){BiDomBull}
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6 months ago •
Jul 9, 2025
She would wear a collar and she would never put panties or underwear on again, no pants or anything else that blocks my access to her. She would be in a short skirt and shirts or bras that show off her body and make it clear that she is a sexual being. She would ask me to be in control of her birth control, so that I decide when she will become a mother. She will get to learn how to satisfy men because I will allow some of my inner circle of friends to enjoy her if they are at my home and their balls need drained. She also gets a new religion, which is focused on my cock and balls. I’ll teach her how to worship my equipment and she will devote herself to making sure she does whatever she can to satisfy me sexually. She is going to get used to watching me fuck women that she finds online and arranges for them to get bred.
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DrknessNC(dom male)
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5 months ago •
Aug 11, 2025
How would her life change?
First she would have clarity in her life. The vanilla, correct and oversensitive world is gone. She (or he) knows she exists to please and serve. There is no "you just want sex". Of course I want sex and to inflict pain, shame, taboo and I make no apologizes. If I want other things, I have other people. Your focus has blinders. You exist to please me with sex and submission. No shame, no hesitation, no appologies. |
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Bishop
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5 months ago •
Aug 11, 2025
In my opinion, if someone asked me how their life would change if they became my submissive, I’d respond with, “How would you want your life to change, or would you?”
Obviously, things change with any new relationship, but I don’t think it would be my job to “fix” her, make her a better person, or dictate who she is or what she does. I think it’s my privilege to support her, encourage her, challenge her, be her strength when she needs it, protect her, and put on my armor when she is struggling and needs to beat on something out of frustration. I would like to encourage her to be the best she can be, however she chooses that would look like. Sure, I like rules, protocols, and such…and I view those things as deepening the dynamic and reinforcing discipline in each of us, but, again, she has to be a part of deciding how the relationship develops. |
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