Galanz(kinky male)
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5 months ago •
Aug 18, 2025
help me to decide
Help please, I am very new I have a problem that I need guidance on. there are 2 Mistress, one here in USA, the other in Canada,they both showed interests in me. The one here in USA is polite , doesn't seem mean, we met on another site then moved to Whatsapp. she has sent only one picture, very few details , asking for personal info. The other I met on another site has sent me multi pictures no nudes just everyday pictures, I never ask for the pictures good conversation , never have asked for personal info. I want a FLR , both of them seem to be interested. How would you determine which one to chose. Thank you
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xx V xx(dom male)
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5 months ago •
Aug 18, 2025
The one in the US sounds like a scam I hope you didn’t share to much personal info.
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Galanz(kinky male)
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5 months ago •
Aug 18, 2025
Thank you, I feel she might be to, I did by nature share info with here, it took me a week to realize that she might be a scam but I am not positive
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Dragon Sun God(switch male)
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5 months ago •
Aug 18, 2025
In such a scenario, I would first satisfy my sexual needs, to ensure my decision is not guided by my cock but rather my mind and heart, and then make a wise decision.
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MissBonnie(dom female){oz}
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5 months ago •
Aug 19, 2025
Do you need to decide right away?
Has she said you need to be exclusive? Your NOT owned or collared but if your feeling serious towards one and its looking leading somewhere, then inform them of the other. Right now you should just be talking! not putting yourself at risk. A "real" person with interest in YOU (and not your wallet) will ask you get to know you questions. Like the others have said scammers and (unmoralled, non disclosing) FinDomme are a problem (if you met one here, report them). So keep your wits about you is a good idea. Most scammers and wallet rapists will do so over the first half dozen chats. Most will ask you to move to another platform so their fishing ground (or is that phishing) stays fertile. Left on a site you have a record that could get them banned. Also: To not get results in that time frame (6 ish chats) they often, move on as time is money. Some women trying out there Domme, also drift off because the fantasy of owning a sub and the reality are VERY different. So don't rule one out over the other until you're sure. Dommes online or real time are HARD to find an you happened on two! That is RARE, not common. Cage has a wonder article on Keeping safe: https://thecage.co/magazine,130.html please keep yourself safe! I'd love to know how you went  Best of luck
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Anna Lynn(sub female)
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3 months ago •
Sep 29, 2025
Always trust your gut feeling. If you are asking questions and leaning one way or another, then you have your answer.
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BigDaddyAnimal(dom male)
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3 months ago •
Sep 30, 2025
CHIME Anna Lynn wrote: Always trust your gut feeling. If you are asking questions and leaning one way or another, then you have your answer.
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House Talion(dom male)
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3 months ago •
Oct 1, 2025
If i were younid most likely go for 2nd one cause first isn't giving as much asbshes asking for and even today mostly scammers us whats app
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Miki
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3 months ago •
Oct 1, 2025
Whatsapp, Telegram, Snapchat----- All examples of a good idea turned into scammer heaven due to their very secure design. Not always, but one can never be "too careful.
A good rule to live by: No personal info outside of basic shit: along the lines of : Wat you do for hobbies, what your line of work is, favorite reading genres, if any-- and so on. Stop cold if "she" asks for really personal shit... ..I mean identity-specific not your dick size or if you shake it more than twice after you hang a leak---- Those are also very personal of course, but they can't use that kind of info to empty your pockets. I mean personal stuff like where specifically do you work, what's your home address, do you have a lot saved up or good investments,.. etc. But from what you wrote so far, the "one pic" isn't great but not in and of itself a big red flag, but the personal questions... Nahh. That kind of smells funny.... ____________________________________________ Ask whoever's behind Door Number One some personal questions of your own. If she responds with good basic info of her own, great! But if she changes the subject or wants that address, specific workplace shit---- run 'til your nuts fall off. That is quite probably a scammer The next thing might very well be a request for gift cards as "proof" of your commitment. Don't fall into that shit pile. |
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