Outfit control

Outfit control

Roveboy​(dom male) • Sep 21, 2025

Is there a community here that are into controlling outfits/appearance or getting controlled?
Just single outfits. Changing complete wardrobes. Controlling the whole appearance (Hair, Makeup, etc.). Things like this.
Longterm dynamics with the focus not really on anything sexual or bondage but having/giving up control over appearance.

Sweetlydepraved​(masochist female)​{Claimed } • Sep 21, 2025

I wouldn’t say that I gave up control over my appearance to Daddy, but at the same time, he has final say. For example: I got my haircut Friday and asked him how short it could be and he said he didn’t want it any shorter except for maintenance cutting, so that’s what I did. He also said he wants to see what I look like if I let my grey hair grow out so that’s what I’m doing. He promised to tell me if it turns out that he doesn’t like it. He never says anything about clothing so I assume he has no preferences but I do take note of which outfits he compliments and wear those more often. He doesn’t like heavy makeup so I keep it light. He does control my diet and exercise to a high degree. I don’t usually eat anything that he hasn’t approved. He tells me when to work out and for how long, I got a “talking to” today for doing more on the elliptical than he said to. When we first met I wore every perfume I have at different times and finally narrowed down his favorite based on how many times he complimented it. He also controls when/how much alcohol I drink. Just last night he took my drink away because he said I was tipsy enough, which I was.

All of these things happened mostly organically without planning, discussion, or making rules. I can essentially do whatever I want, but I intrinsically want to please him so I do what he wants. I wouldn’t be punished for doing the opposite but he would definitely express his displeasure and reiterate why he thinks I should do whatever it was I didn’t do.

That’s a lot more than “outfit control” though.

xx V xx​(dom male) • Sep 21, 2025

If you are the type of sub that needs daily reminders that it’s socks then shoes it’s a pass.

If you are the type of sub that wants me to pick your outfit daily you will find yourself dressed in hip waders a bikini wearing a cowboy hat while wearing a sponge bob sheet as a cape with an umbrella during a hurricane force winds, why, mostly for my entertainment.

You may be a sub but you’re also an adult and can make the right decision on how to dress for the occasion and weather conditions.

If you ask my opinion on hair, nails, make up, how you look dressed I will give you my honest opinion. If you ask me if the jeans make your ass look big, it’s not the jeans.
I may make suggestions as to what to wear depending on where we are going, if we are going to the symphony baggy sweats and an oversized hoody with slippers nope go change it’s not thanksgiving.

If I see clothes I like and would look great on you I’m going to buy it and hope you like it.

Anna Lynn​(sub female) • Sep 21, 2025

I have no issues with body modification or clothing control to a point. I would want him to enjoy what he sees. However, there would need to be discussion before hand. I believe in dressing for the occasion and I do not want to appear in public dressed like a slut.
I, personally, would not be comfortable with that.