BigDaddyAnimal(dom male)
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3 months ago •
Oct 2, 2025
It's a nice theory friendship Miki wrote: More to the point than my earlier post:
If the breakup is amicable or at least civil, friendship and "keep in touch" is not a bad idea. It depends on the couple and whether both can just stick to the friend zone without hidden hopes of "Maybe the other will want to try again later" ---While anything can happen in life, love, and lust, a lot of time and opportunities stands to be missed when clinging to that hope. If the "other" is a toxic blob of negative: ---- No Rules, Just Run. but when your ex hates you the sight of you and you have no idea why when you were never raised your voice never hit her never cheated Then it's just impossible to have a friendship I would hope that when it happened deep down I think the woman either has a ÂŁ10 tumor Or has been going through menopause for 20 years, Sorry its what it is I feel bad for her to had that much angst in life. then the kicker of it is I probably will always love her What can I tell you |
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Sweet Ginger(sub female){âš“ }
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3 months ago •
Oct 4, 2025
Every relationship is different and of course depending on the reason(s) for the breakup should be factored in.. Some "wounds" heal over time.. some are a constant reminder whenever you see that person..I say for myself it depends, if there was a trust violation then, "no". Some relationships after it ended I had no desire to continue a friendship with tbat person. My closes friend is my past boyfriend. After our relationship ended I don't recall either of us talking about staying friends or keepingin touch..our friendship wasn't something that developed overnight. ..getting there took time..
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Bishop
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3 months ago •
Oct 5, 2025
Any advice I would give for a break up is to have the conversation, amicably if possible, and then spend time with a “no-contact” with that person until you both have had a chance to reflect on what happened and heal.
As for being friends, I don’t agree that it is possible, I’d go so far as to say fwb really isn’t a thing…unless you’re specifically wired for that. Once you cross that line and are intimate, whether it be in a vanilla relationship, fwb, and especially in a bdsm relationship, emotions get involved. If the D and s stay “friends,” there’s the issue of them still holding that “emotional space” which could very easily cause problems later down the road. But, I’m jaded in this area, I’ve had nothing but train wrecks with my partners still being “friends” with their ex’s or “fwb”…so take it for what it’s worth. |
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