Sayyy(sub female)
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2 months ago •
Nov 17, 2025
Married but complicated
hey I’m Saylor I’m 28 from north east and married.. Our sex life is very vanilla but he does please me when we do it.. I read a lot of smut books and get turned on a lot from the very descriptive writing.. He is always gone and working which is annoying but when I think of my husband he is not dominant and I would just like to make love to him.. But with a stranger I want to be submissive and literally get fucked senseless
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| masterSR |
2 months ago •
Nov 17, 2025
Sure , are you still looking for a dominant ?
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House Talion(dom male)
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2 months ago •
Nov 17, 2025
I understand your problem, but in all reality its best to have your husband's consent before looking for a Dom or elsebits cheating and may lead to divorce. Anyone that says otherwise is probably just considering their own greed.
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| Miss Anima(dom female) |
2 months ago •
Nov 18, 2025
I see a divorce in your future.
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intenseoldman(dom male)
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2 months ago •
Nov 18, 2025
Re: Married but complicated Sayyy wrote: ...when I think of my husband he is not dominant and I would just like to make love to him.. But with a stranger I want to be submissive and literally get fucked senseless
I take that it's when you "think" of a stranger, not that you have been dominated and "fucked senseless" by a stranger, yet. Regardless "stranger" is the word you use. You have no inhibitions about your raw primal cravings with someone for whom you have no emotional connection. There's no shame in being sexually dominated by a stranger. The stranger is your husband if he doesn't know or want to know you in this way. Your submission won't stop wanting it's full expression. It will keep fighting its way to the surface. For the sake of both you and your husband's happiness, he should know your explicit thoughts and desires. If he cares, he should help you. I don't know what that help looks like. I don't know if he can become dominant, but you both deserve to be happy and fully satisfied. You need to figure that out together. |
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Anna Lynn(sub female)
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2 months ago •
Nov 19, 2025
I'm just sitting over here wondering what happened to the forum posts that asked legitimate questions about BDSM and the lifestyle that we can discuss intelligently and learn something from instead of all these thirsty posts.
Oh well. |
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K y i v{Walking}
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2 months ago •
Nov 19, 2025
Anna Lynn wrote: I'm just sitting over here wondering what happened to the forum posts that asked legitimate questions about BDSM and the lifestyle that we can discuss intelligently and learn something from instead of all these thirsty posts.
Oh well. Wishful thinking, Anna. |
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