Age gap kink

Age gap kink

Illinois Latino​(dom male) • Nov 25, 2025

I've always had a kink for someone much older than me. I've had a fwb who was 30 years older than me. But Ive always wanted someone even older. Just the thought of fucking someone older than me always turns me on. The only downside is there isn't that many older woman who are into younger men. Would love to meet more in the future though. But having such a kink can be tough at times

Miki • Nov 26, 2025

Oh geez you're looking under the wrong rocks.

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That used to be and likely still is a thing. "Cougars" aplenty. You just need to know where to look.

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When I was active I was into younger dudes every now and then -- not too young of course, but young enough to be "sexual microwaves"-- Ready to go in no time.

But anyway, sorry that my reply lacks any usable advice but when I saw your quandary I had to channel my incomparable if sometimes chafing wit and be a smart ass.

l But, when it comes to Cougars, Like the Truth, "They're Out There"

House Talion​(dom male) • Nov 26, 2025

Cougars and gmilf. Yes, grandmother's id like to f**k is a specific type of lady. Personally I swing the other way on age gaps.

Illinois Latino​(dom male) • Nov 26, 2025

Appreciate the honesty miki and the answer is all good no worries. And I don't mind the response at all, we have to let it out sometimes lol.


And the same goes to Talion. It is a specific type of woman but we all have our tastes for sure

Miki • Nov 27, 2025

Well, when I was "active", checkered flannel shirts made most guys look pretty damned good... But not the Paul Bunyan type. That guy walked around in the woods all day long with an axe and an ox, so somewhere along the line he was probably better known as Paul Bunion. In addition, dudes like him often have bad tempers and worse breath.

darlingdiana​(sub female)​{Master Ron} • Nov 29, 2025

I can relate to this, Illinois Latino. My preference has always been an older gentleman. You are so right… it is harder for young Men to acquire an older woman. I think it is because its more common for women (especially young) to be attracted to older Men. There are alot of underlying issues for this and it’s usually a phase for a period of time.
For individuals diehards like You and i, that have truly enjoyed and rejoiced in the large age gap for decades- it can still be a challenge once that is found, discovering if they match in all the other ways also. I totally encourage You to keep looking! You will eventually find that special mature someone and all of Your kink dreams can come true. (It may even help to click Your heels together 3 times *Im not in Kansas anymore*) 😉 i am a lifer or long term gal and have had more bad luck than good- but it worked out splendidly in the last year with my second Dom.
We have a large age gap and he’s perfection to me. Im preparing now for his arrival Dec. 15th. 👌🏻☺️ i may have to buy a dresser for my toys collected.. in His words.
Wishing You such Good luck! i hope some incredible mature woman might have a VERY Merry Christmas indeed!

Best,
darling diana

Agamemnon​(sub male) • Nov 30, 2025

Intersting,i am very into granny Mistress/Dominas 60/70+ but is very hard to be in FLR..Distance is main problem

Heart of Persephone​(sub female)​{owned} • Dec 27, 2025

I too have an age gap kink. as I'm getting older the gap is harder to find LOL. much easier when I was teen 20's.
But seriously, to me age gap feels so natural. I do not know why but it does. I dont think I have some deep seated "daddy issues" I just love the look.

For me its the look that age brings, I think there are handsome and appealing men of all ages. but give me the deep wrinkles, weathered skin. hands that show age. greying hair, the rasping of a voice.

At the age of 50 I can see another man in his fifties attractive, and what I dreamt of when I was in my baby faced youth. I will always prefer one to be at least 10 years my senior and I would go for a guy in their 90's.

Now would I reverse that gap and look to the younger men? I dont know but I do get plenty of compliments of the younger gens on my Fetlife page. But I dont gauge the sincerity of a Fet compliment to be much more than, "I saw your tits and now I am hard-look at my wiener" from a horned out 20 plus year old.

Easy on the breath, minty😉

Lord Z​(dom male) • Dec 27, 2025

Illinois Latino​(dom male) • Jan 16, 2026

Really appreciate the encouragement and I won't stop looking lol. And best of luck to you and your search as well. Hopefully you have fun with your friend as well