Paid Dominatrixes

Paid Dominatrixes

TopekaDom​(dom male)​{Chaos } • Jan 18, 2026

Now before you get all pissy and moany about what you thought this thread was going to be about: It isn't.

So sit back and relax and read a bit....

Settled down now? good. Here goes:

The wife decided for part of her birthday day celebration, we were going to watch the Sherlock episodes from the BBC. The second series opened up with "A Scandal in Belgravia". Here we are introduced to Irene Adler (the one woman who Sherlock Holmes has any interest in, in case you are not familiar with the lore). In this telling, Irene is a Pro Dominatrix who gets all kinds of secrets and what not.

I've known a good deal of Pros during my time in the lifestyle, but I have always been on the fencepost on why Women get the pass on being Pro and Men don't. I
have a few ideas on why that is so, but wanted to see what others thought.

Discuss:

parebo​(dom male) • Jan 18, 2026

Hmm, I'm not sure whether that's the case in my experience. I've seen various professional BDSM establishments which have both male and female dominants on staff.