Max Heathen(kinky male)
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2 days ago •
Jan 19, 2026
As a Master, during the vetting process, I have spoken with some who claim to have no limits. As the Master, for me, that shit is scary AF. No limits means I have to be the one that continually makes sure they survive the altercation with my sadistic beast who himself is only restrained by the Limits placed in a contract. How many lashes is one too many? At what point of a deep throat, is soaking too long when the jerk and panic is a part that appeals to the sadist? Limits are normal and in place for both parties.
Safety words Safety signals/signs Are required in any safe dynamic and should be tested at minimum once a year. It builds trust when planned out to a general agreement of: "somewhere in the next 5 scenes call out your safety word. I don't care if either of us are about to cum." Doing maintenance on the dynamic has shitty moments but they are just that... Maintenance. Anything can happen at any time, even if you've done it a hundred times before so it builds a dynamic to know that on the Master side: They will stop no matter what. They will take time to investigate even if they are having an emotional moment. They will follow through in an appropriate manner. If the scene is agreed to continue, they come back to discover what caused the Safety Word. On the Slaves side: They are willing to be obedient even when the side-effect may have temporary negative effects. (Let's face it, when we're hot n heavy, nobody wants to stop but that's where it's most likely going to go wrong.) They are willing to protect their Master. (If a slave goes to the hospital or morgue, reports and charges may be filed.) They are showing they trust and that trust is given back with equal passion. While I prefer a slave who responds without questions, that's something that happens over time. I'm suspicious of a Slave who never asks questions, though I do expect that to reduce over time. Giving 100 percent trust in another person doesn't mean that you're ignoring safety or responsibility in the dynamic. Masters are just as human as the slaves are, we each show it differently but we both fuck up. We both forget. Part of that trust is personal choice. Removing the ability to visit/communicate with friends and family would require an honest rational, imo. Some families make life worse than better and I would partake in family visits to see for myself, the manner of which my Slave is being treated. I would desire the same thing with their friend groups. To me, it's less about controlling from a jealous mind and more about doing what is required to build the relationship. If family/friends are toxic or verbally abusive, I'd put restrictions on contact with such people but ultimately the decision is on the Slave. When I choose my Slave, I choose to be part of their life right up to the limits placed. |
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