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1 week ago • Jan 18, 2026

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TopekaDom​(dom male)​{Chaos }Verified Account • Jan 18, 2026
Now before you get all pissy and moany about what you thought this thread was going to be about: It isn't.

So sit back and relax and read a bit....

Settled down now? good. Here goes:

The wife decided for part of her birthday day celebration, we were going to watch the Sherlock episodes from the BBC. The second series opened up with "A Scandal in Belgravia". Here we are introduced to Irene Adler (the one woman who Sherlock Holmes has any interest in, in case you are not familiar with the lore). In this telling, Irene is a Pro Dominatrix who gets all kinds of secrets and what not.

I've known a good deal of Pros during my time in the lifestyle, but I have always been on the fencepost on why Women get the pass on being Pro and Men don't. I
have a few ideas on why that is so, but wanted to see what others thought.

Discuss:
parebo​(dom male)
1 week ago • Jan 18, 2026
parebo​(dom male) • Jan 18, 2026
Hmm, I'm not sure whether that's the case in my experience. I've seen various professional BDSM establishments which have both male and female dominants on staff.
House Talion​(dom male)
5 days ago • Jan 24, 2026
House Talion​(dom male) • Jan 24, 2026
Ppl can call themselves whatever they want and society will either accept them or call them crazy, but no one speaks up on account of the fact that calling them out on anything that could be bs is frowned down on.

As pro is short for professional, such isbasednonbhaving an educated understanding of this lifestyle and the experience that comes with it. For that fantasy to become a reality youd need to have a credited institution within this lifestyle that has given you said education thus rewarding you with some peice of paper saying you passed their course, but anyone with the right app and a printer can do as much.

From my experience thebonly ppl within this lifestyle that should be paid anything is either those of us that have been hired by the uneducated to instruct and educate them of such proceedings or the M of M/s that requires as much from their human properties. Anyone else is simply throwing around unwarranted titles while demanding tribute for simply existing. Still, by my experience, thus my opinion, and I'm sure ppl will argue again as much.