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My significant other explains what she likes about bondage.

Badgirlblues​(dom male)
12 hours ago • Feb 9, 2026

My significant other explains what she likes about bondage.

Badgirlblues​(dom male) • Feb 9, 2026
I've experimented with some Shibari bondage with my consensual partner, and we both enjoyed it. It's not a central part of our relationship, but it has had a positive place. I'm wondering whether any women have had the same response of my partner. We engaged in some basic rope bondage; we both felt comfortable initiating the "role playing"; I became curious why my partner enjoyed it, so I asked. She told me that the psychic effect she saw in me--some type of pleasurable fascination--in my behavior in tying her up using traditional methods, and also watching my growing erotic response--which showed in my hands, which slightly quiver, my attempt to be as "professional" as possible, and my wide-eyed enjoyment of slowly undressing her and tying her up made her feel a certain pleasure in sensing I enjoyed her sensual "power." I'm asking because neither of us are super "into" the role playing, but find it enjoyable. Another remark she made was that there was no pain involved in any of the "scene" we devised and she found that a turn on. So, bottom line, does all that make sense to you? Like I said, I'm not an expert and I don't intend to be. But is's nice to include it in our dynamics.
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House Talion​(dom male)
10 hours ago • Feb 9, 2026
House Talion​(dom male) • Feb 9, 2026
They like to feel being controlled in every way. Mine wants to feel forced to get beat with nothing she's able to do about it no matter how much he loves it.
The Number one Sir​(dom male)
2 hours ago • Feb 9, 2026

Re: My significant other explains what she likes about bondage.

Badgirlblues wrote:
I've experimented with some Shibari bondage with my consensual partner, and we both enjoyed it. It's not a central part of our relationship, but it has had a positive place. I'm wondering whether any women have had the same response of my partner. We engaged in some basic rope bondage; we both felt comfortable initiating the "role playing"; I became curious why my partner enjoyed it, so I asked. She told me that the psychic effect she saw in me--some type of pleasurable fascination--in my behavior in tying her up using traditional methods, and also watching my growing erotic response--which showed in my hands, which slightly quiver, my attempt to be as "professional" as possible, and my wide-eyed enjoyment of slowly undressing her and tying her up made her feel a certain pleasure in sensing I enjoyed her sensual "power." I'm asking because neither of us are super "into" the role playing, but find it enjoyable. Another remark she made was that there was no pain involved in any of the "scene" we devised and she found that a turn on. So, bottom line, does all that make sense to you? Like I said, I'm not an expert and I don't intend to be. But is's nice to include it in our dynamics.


Sounds all good, what's not to enjoy? Don't overthink...