Wanting to Switch

Here s a question for everyone



If a submissive who submits, suddenly wants that feeling of control wrong for asking

Does that person become a fake submissive



And if a Dominant wants to try something with another Dominant, and that Dominant submits to the other

Does that mean they a fake Dominant



Why can't people try something new without being labelled as fake??????
It's something different, not saying they going to like it, but thinking about they may like to try

I think there are some that believe the roles are innate. While I do think there is some roles that we feel more natural in, that doesn’t mean the roles are static. People grow, change and explore. Sometimes, the desire comes from external stimuli.

For me personally, I like to submit because my role at work requires a lot of decision making and asserting myself. The relief I feel from submission helps me decompress in many ways. But if my job changes or maybe when I retire, I’ll be lacking a sense of responsibility and may want to seek it in my romantic life.

The only people who are truly fake are those that don’t appreciate their responsibilities on the Dom side or those that don’t actually give that responsibility on the sub side