UniDomme(dom female)
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1 week ago •
Feb 27, 2026
► magicHands wrote: I would have to agree, that you as the dominate are the one required to set clear expectations first and it sounds like that is in question. So first clarify for you self is the fault theirs or yours. If it is your then be VERY clear in your communication that they have failed to please you and what you expect of them.
As far as punishment goes there is nothing special. It is what ever your dynamics normal punishment is. Walk up to them looking them in the eyes as you put your hand on their throat and tighten your grip telling them they will you better or you will turn your self over to another who can meet your expectations. If they squirm or make excuses slap them. And reafirm your expectations. While you started off with a negative feeling this can be turned into something enjoyable in exploring how you will enjoy punishing them. As a dom I assume you mean “as has been agreed previously as part of your dynamic or when it has been agreed”? As the individual stated they had not managed expectations or set clear rules and guidelines to which both domme and sub had agreed. There can be no punishment in the first instance without this. As a dom/domme you are there to maintain the boundaries not to punish for no reason. Fear is not respect or trust which I am sure we are already aware of. |
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Jeffica(sub femme)
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5 hours ago •
Mar 11, 2026
My ex-wife taught me a long time ago that humiliation on myself for some reason it turns me on , when I'm punished by my ex-wife I don't like what she has me do but looking up at her as a woman and causing that is that humiliation that I thrive. I've listened to everything she would say and do just about everything that she wanted me to do and it was quite awesomely ugly at times I never say no because she was a female and I respect and the female is Superior my wife is gone now and she left me looking for a dominant woman.
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Jeffica(sub femme)
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5 hours ago •
Mar 11, 2026
► UniDomme wrote: ► magicHands wrote: I would have to agree, that you as the dominate are the one required to set clear expectations first and it sounds like that is in question. So first clarify for you self is the fault theirs or yours. If it is your then be VERY clear in your communication that they have failed to please you and what you expect of them.
As far as punishment goes there is nothing special. It is what ever your dynamics normal punishment is. Walk up to them looking them in the eyes as you put your hand on their throat and tighten your grip telling them they will you better or you will turn your self over to another who can meet your expectations. If they squirm or make excuses slap them. And reafirm your expectations. While you started off with a negative feeling this can be turned into something enjoyable in exploring how you will enjoy punishing them. As a dom I assume you mean “as has been agreed previously as part of your dynamic or when it has been agreed”? As the individual stated they had not managed expectations or set clear rules and guidelines to which both domme and sub had agreed. There can be no punishment in the first instance without this. As a dom/domme you are there to maintain the boundaries not to punish for no reason. Fear is not respect or trust which I am sure we are already aware of. |
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Jeffica(sub femme)
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4 hours ago •
Mar 11, 2026
Do I need punished or no need for punishments
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