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Roveboy​(dom male)
5 months ago • Sep 21, 2025

Outfit control

Roveboy​(dom male) • Sep 21, 2025
Is there a community here that are into controlling outfits/appearance or getting controlled?
Just single outfits. Changing complete wardrobes. Controlling the whole appearance (Hair, Makeup, etc.). Things like this.
Longterm dynamics with the focus not really on anything sexual or bondage but having/giving up control over appearance.
Sweetlydepraved Sweetlydepraved​(masochist female)​{Claimed }Verified Account
5 months ago • Sep 21, 2025
Sweetlydepraved​(masochist female)​{Claimed }Verified Account • Sep 21, 2025
I wouldn’t say that I gave up control over my appearance to Daddy, but at the same time, he has final say. For example: I got my haircut Friday and asked him how short it could be and he said he didn’t want it any shorter except for maintenance cutting, so that’s what I did. He also said he wants to see what I look like if I let my grey hair grow out so that’s what I’m doing. He promised to tell me if it turns out that he doesn’t like it. He never says anything about clothing so I assume he has no preferences but I do take note of which outfits he compliments and wear those more often. He doesn’t like heavy makeup so I keep it light. He does control my diet and exercise to a high degree. I don’t usually eat anything that he hasn’t approved. He tells me when to work out and for how long, I got a “talking to” today for doing more on the elliptical than he said to. When we first met I wore every perfume I have at different times and finally narrowed down his favorite based on how many times he complimented it. He also controls when/how much alcohol I drink. Just last night he took my drink away because he said I was tipsy enough, which I was.

All of these things happened mostly organically without planning, discussion, or making rules. I can essentially do whatever I want, but I intrinsically want to please him so I do what he wants. I wouldn’t be punished for doing the opposite but he would definitely express his displeasure and reiterate why he thinks I should do whatever it was I didn’t do.

That’s a lot more than “outfit control” though.
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xx V xx xx V xx​(dom male)Verified Account
xx V xx​(dom male)Verified Account
5 months ago • Sep 21, 2025
xx V xx​(dom male)Verified Account • Sep 21, 2025
If you are the type of sub that needs daily reminders that it’s socks then shoes it’s a pass.

If you are the type of sub that wants me to pick your outfit daily you will find yourself dressed in hip waders a bikini wearing a cowboy hat while wearing a sponge bob sheet as a cape with an umbrella during a hurricane force winds, why, mostly for my entertainment.

You may be a sub but you’re also an adult and can make the right decision on how to dress for the occasion and weather conditions.

If you ask my opinion on hair, nails, make up, how you look dressed I will give you my honest opinion. If you ask me if the jeans make your ass look big, it’s not the jeans.
I may make suggestions as to what to wear depending on where we are going, if we are going to the symphony baggy sweats and an oversized hoody with slippers nope go change it’s not thanksgiving.

If I see clothes I like and would look great on you I’m going to buy it and hope you like it.
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Anna LynnVerified Account
5 months ago • Sep 21, 2025
Anna LynnVerified Account • Sep 21, 2025
I have no issues with body modification or clothing control to a point. I would want him to enjoy what he sees. However, there would need to be discussion before hand. I believe in dressing for the occasion and I do not want to appear in public dressed like a slut.
I, personally, would not be comfortable with that.
alycat​(sub female)
18 hours ago • Mar 13, 2026
alycat​(sub female) • Mar 13, 2026
outfit control is something i am very into on the subby side. i don't necessarily want it as someone picking my outfits head to toe every day (though special occasions doing this could be fun), but more as making alterations to my already chosen outfit. if i wore jeans, tell me to change into my shortest skirt instead so you can have access to touch my ass or flip my skirt up and expose me at any moment. or if i wore a thin tank top, tell me i'm not allowed to wear a bra today and i have to spend the day feeling like everyone looking at me sees a slut. it's more about taking something i felt good in and making it something embarrassingly exposing for me
darlingdiana darlingdiana​(sub female)​{Master Ron}
15 hours ago • Mar 14, 2026
I am more understanding of the need to control an outfit or look as a preference rather than a specific kink. Only because the reason behind most preference from clothing, behaviour to protocol is control itself. When I say preference some Dom’s consider this micro managing or don’t really care outside the regular norms. Some such as my Master does not control but states His preference. He is a very well dressed and groomed professional and the importance of a chic and modern look in His partner is important to Him in attraction and in a measurable image. It is not a request or an order. I ( much like other subs) aim and insist on pleasing His preference. This includes my hair length, colour and everything I wear. He is extremely fashion conscious and even heels with ankle straps are a no, he says they cut the leg off and look awful. This goes for ankle boots as well. It’s about His preference not exercising control in this area. He chooses other areas to exercise control such as routine, language, education, work and specific tasks/roles in training.
dollMaker dollMaker​(dom male)
8 hours ago • Mar 14, 2026
dollMaker​(dom male) • Mar 14, 2026
Yes, when I am involved with a doll (dolls are rare) then yes, that is a big part of the focus of the involvement.
JaredMayer JaredMayer​(dom male)
6 hours ago • Mar 14, 2026
JaredMayer​(dom male) • Mar 14, 2026
I've never had the opportunity to practice it, but I do imagine I'd enjoy dictating a sub's appearance. I wouldn't be interested in micromanaging (at least not most of the time) but being able to tell them that I want them to keep their hair on the short side and dress like a mousey librarian, yeah that has its appeal.
TopekaDom TopekaDom​(dom male)​{Chaos }Verified Account
6 hours ago • Mar 14, 2026
TopekaDom​(dom male)​{Chaos }Verified Account • Mar 14, 2026
Yeah, that is commonly known as micromanagement. It is ok for some, but I find it boring as shit. While I have provided some guidelines, I don't make small decision like that. Part of training is to have the property learn to think like I do.
darlingdiana darlingdiana​(sub female)​{Master Ron}
4 hours ago • Mar 14, 2026
dollMaker wrote:
Yes, when I am involved with a doll (dolls are rare) then yes, that is a big part of the focus of the involvement.

I learn everyday… I researched this and had no idea of the intricate detail, rarity and another vast space in the broad spectrum of bdsm. Thank You Doll Maker Great article on Feeld.co In that dynamic it would matter very much and be a kink. Very cool beans.