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GoddessAlexandria GoddessAlexandria​(dom female)
20 hours ago • Apr 6, 2026

5 Questions

1.) What are the 3 most important values for you in a D/s relationship?
2.) What is your preferred method of punishment, and what about funishment?
3.) What is the biggest mistake you have made as Dominant, submissive, or switch?
4.) What is the best thing to you about being a Dominant, submissive, or switch?
5.) What is your biggest struggle in being a Dominant, submissive, or switch?
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GoddessAlexandria GoddessAlexandria​(dom female)
17 hours ago • Apr 6, 2026

Re: 5 Questions

1.) What are the 3 most important values for you in a D/s relationship?
Answer: Trust, communication, honesty.
2.) What is your preferred method of punishment, and what about funishment?
Answer: Punishment would have to impact, clamps, lines, corner time, an essay, or taking away rights or privileges.
Punishments would be edges, a fun impact session.
3.) What is the biggest mistake you have made as Dominant, submissive, or switch?
Answer: Staying in a toxic dynamic.
4.) What is the best thing to you about being a Dominant, submissive, or switch?
Answer: Being able to help my sub become the best they can be and taking care them.
5.) What is your biggest struggle in being a Dominant, submissive, or switch?
Answer: I struggle with not always being okay (i.e. being sick, depression, anxiety ETC.) and needing down/off time or not being up for someting.
fluffypoppet fluffypoppet​(sub female)​{Protected}Verified Account
11 hours ago • Apr 6, 2026

Re: 5 Questions

fluffypoppet​(sub female)​{Protected}Verified Account • Apr 6, 2026
GoddessAlexandria wrote:
1.) What are the 3 most important values for you in a D/s relationship?

- Consistency
- Communication
- Clarity
(I assume we're all in agreement that consent and trust are the bare minimum?)

GoddessAlexandria wrote:
2.) What is your preferred method of punishment, and what about funishment?

- No need for punishments. I live the good girl life. If something's really wrong let's talk.
- I ask for my spankings like a fucking lady- just as I was taught to.

GoddessAlexandria wrote:
3.) What is the biggest mistake you have made as Dominant, submissive, or switch?

- Assuming capacity based on what someone said before fully evaluating it based on their deeds.

GoddessAlexandria wrote:
4.) What is the best thing to you about being a Dominant, submissive, or switch?

- Being a submissive is letting go and thriving in a high trust environment with someone worthy of it. There's no peace like that.

GoddessAlexandria wrote:
5.) What is your biggest struggle in being a Dominant, submissive, or switch?

- Submission is my nature. It isn't a struggle. Finding the right Dom at the right time ready to meet me where I am is an uncomfortably slow process.
TopekaDom TopekaDom​(dom male)​{Chaos }Verified Account
9 hours ago • Apr 6, 2026
TopekaDom​(dom male)​{Chaos }Verified Account • Apr 6, 2026
1)

A: Informed Consent
B: Honesty
C:Being Honorable

2: Punishment is always emotional, never physical. My most common is telling them "I am disappointed in you".
2a: "Funishment" is an absurd concept.

3: Violating consent, or rather taking action without obtaining consent first.

4: Breaking the finger of a "Dom" who was violating consent

5:Getting older and seeing the old ways die off.