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What is more annoying a brat or someone who always listens

My initial response: neither is annoying.

Brats are adorable and fun, and often always listen - they just don't necessarily do "exactly" what they are told in the minute.

There is a reason for bratting. And often a time and place.

Now someone who simply is obstinate all the time is not necessarily a brat nor are they often listening.

It also depends upon what you define as always listening? As in a slave or absolute docile submissive? Nothing wrong with that either.

Find the happy middle ground that works for your own relationship with whoever you chose to be with and who choses you.

Best of luck!