Question for fellow FEMDOM members

Hello, I'm here with a simple question because I would like to know other experiences. Can you name ways someone submitted to you that meant a benefit for you and not something they already were wanting to do? Can you name more than 5 ways a male found to show they were submitting to you? Just curious

For community members in the peanut gallery eager for responses, could you offer additional clarity?

"ways someone submitted to you that meant a benefit for you and not something they already were wanting to do" --> How do you distinguish this standard? Not a Femdom, but I can't say I've seen this in ladies as it seems the standard is for them to not want to do it, but to do it unprompted by the dominant. An oxymoron no?

Perhaps examples of your own could elucidate.