What do you.....?

A friend asked me this today, and now I want to ask all of you! 🗣️

🖤 Doms: Why do you love being a Dominant, and what’s the best part for you?
🤍 Subs: Why do you love being a submissive, and what’s the best part for you?
☯️ Switches: Answer for both, or just pick the one you lean toward most!

Let's hear it! 👇

Im a submissive male
I enjoy seeing my domme smile
(Dont have mistress anymore)

Simple answer: As a Femdom sub, I enjoy watching my Dom being pleased by what I do for her. The daily rituals, serving by cooking, cleaning, etc., and years ago she said, " I think I would like you naked all the time". So, of course, I'
do everything naked because it pleases her.

In our decades in the Kink world, the one thing that has been common with the people we have met, swingers, D/s, poly, etc. is doing the simple things - not the porn or movie fake stuff that many newbies think is important. Whether the people are blue collar workers, business owners, or even national celebrities (we've been with all of them) most feel the key is to be yourself.

I wouldn't say that I love being a dominant (or a sadist), it's just what I am.

I like being in control and having the sub do what I say just because I told them to, and I like that they will suffer to please me, but equally I like that I can just make them do what's good for them instead of having to convince them. Like, maybe it's an autistic thing, but so many people around me seem to continually make obviously wrong choices over and over again, ignoring their rational mind in favor of appeasing some sentiment or emotion, and it gets so tedious.