What do you.....?

A friend asked me this today, and now I want to ask all of you! 🗣️

🖤 Doms: Why do you love being a Dominant, and what’s the best part for you?
🤍 Subs: Why do you love being a submissive, and what’s the best part for you?
☯️ Switches: Answer for both, or just pick the one you lean toward most!

Let's hear it! 👇

Im a submissive male
I enjoy seeing my domme smile
(Dont have mistress anymore)

Simple answer: As a Femdom sub, I enjoy watching my Dom being pleased by what I do for her. The daily rituals, serving by cooking, cleaning, etc., and years ago she said, " I think I would like you naked all the time". So, of course, I'
do everything naked because it pleases her.

In our decades in the Kink world, the one thing that has been common with the people we have met, swingers, D/s, poly, etc. is doing the simple things - not the porn or movie fake stuff that many newbies think is important. Whether the people are blue collar workers, business owners, or even national celebrities (we've been with all of them) most feel the key is to be yourself.

I wouldn't say that I love being a dominant (or a sadist), it's just what I am.

I like being in control and having the sub do what I say just because I told them to, and I like that they will suffer to please me, but equally I like that I can just make them do what's good for them instead of having to convince them. Like, maybe it's an autistic thing, but so many people around me seem to continually make obviously wrong choices over and over again, ignoring their rational mind in favor of appeasing some sentiment or emotion, and it gets so tedious.

As a FemDom, one of the greatest rewards is watching my submissive take genuine pride in serving me. His fulfillment comes from knowing that his efforts make my life easier and bring me pleasure. Whether it's preparing meals, keeping my home in order, anticipating my needs, or faithfully carrying out our daily rituals, his service is an expression of his devotion and respect.

I'm not a true sub. However I do gravitate to a submissive sexuality with some women. I enjoy the unknown. The difference in domme women can be thrilling. Their needs and wants expectations and limits create ever changing dynamics. What pleases one domme means nothing to another dominant woman. So you are constantly learning and adjusting to accommodate. Also you might learn to define your own limits serving different dommes. Also I feel sexual when I am serving. Even non-sexual tasks arouses me. Cause who I am doing the task for excites me. Other things also.

I often equate being a Dom with being a sculptor.

One takes a hunk of rough rock and stare at it til you see the glorious figure within. Then, you peck away the unneeded chips and buff out the rough edges until the final figure is fully released.

The thing that really gets me off is an s type who is willing to put themselves in my hands for all of that. The pain, the structure, the correction, the education.

🤍 i love being a submissive because its the skin im in. my favourite part is the capture and enslavement. It lingers for many years.