Anyone else feel like Dom/Sub/Switch labels just don't quite fit?

Totally identify with this stream of consciousness. Labels are a starting point not the” cage”( so to speak) for yourself. I let the mood and the company take us where it will. I like to be dominant in some situations and like to be broken down and made to be a sub bottom. I think the transition from Dom to sub is exhilarating.

Yes I feel the same way. I am bi I enjoy sex with both sexes men and women.
With men I enjoy the sub bottom cock sucker side, but I am not into the whole BDSM thing. I am no slave no pain blood or bondage. I just enjoy a masculine mature top dad types of men that enjoy being serviced NSA no reciprocation wanted. With just a bit of kink added LOL.😁

With women I am more dominant and enjoy everything a woman has to offer, but still not into the whole BDSM category. If she likes to switch it up and likes to play kukleled games with other men involved. Then that would be my dream girl lol 😀

The whole categorization of dom/sub and so on seems to need updated. It works for some and I am sure they fid what they are seeking sometimes. I just think its too static for most people. For me some of it fits but all that pain and slave controlling really doesn't do anything for me.

Anyhow, I agree with you.

You could just use the term "kinky". That covers just about everything and it's way shorter and more concise than some of the previous suggestions.