Just A Touch

I've been on this site for a while and I like the type of content (from people to professional) it offers. I love expressing myself with my stories and I think I would like to dive in a little deeper as a submissive, but I am not a social person at all. I would love to bring out my inner bombshell I just don't know where to start.

What were your first experiences like being involved in BDSM and how did you finally become fully comfortable with your partner or partners?

I don’t recall the exact moment. But I do remember a year in my early 20s when I just started experimenting with everything sexual. I had a couple of partners who were open to different forms of play.

I had one partner who revealed that she was a natural sub and liked it rough. I revealed that I was also a sub and loved humiliation. So we just took turns switching roles for each other.

We ultimately parted ways on good terms but I look fondly on it. Two people Exploring this world with fresh eyes as kindred spirits.

My submission basically started decades ago without realizing that's what it was. I took on a job where I was the only man with 30 women and I had to take care of everything they needed. Of course, this was totally a non BDSM or sexual position, but I felt at ease being told what to do.

After being in our vanilla marriage for years, my wife introduced the dynamic of a Femdom marriage. We researched it and I agreed to allow her to train me. To my surprise, she took the time to do it methodically and today I enjoy being a 24/7 sub both in & out of the bedroom and both in public & in private. Without question, I am "at the point of no return" and will always be a submissive.

As for being comfortable, don't worry, it will come naturally over time. I was nervous at my first event, but everyone made me comfortable in a short time. So far, I getting comfortable with my partner too - we'll be married 54 years next month.