tallslenderguy wrote:
The truth is, idk. The imagination can run wild, but it's conjecture based on how i'm feeling and where i'm at at the time.
my most generous response is the person may just be here to look, but from there my feelings and thoughts usually go down hill lol.
If someone tries to engage with me, writes me a message, the first thing i do is go to their profile. If the message is short or non-descript and their profile is blank, or virtually so, the person is essentially 'blank' to me as well. If one presents as invisible, anything else is speculation.
To me, worse than blank, is a profile with words but no real content. Profiles that say nothing to distinguish a persons individuality are just a blur to me. One of my favorites is a profile where someone states they are "seeking ltr," or their "soulmate," or "the love of my life," and then writes: "if interested, contact me."
All good points. I dont read the profiles that are novels. Talking directly with others is how I get to know someone and will share myself at a pace that makes me feel safe. I appreciate you sharing your viewpoint it has given me something to ponder on the subject.
I originally posted this because of an interaction with someone with a blank profile and only a BDSM list. During our conversation I asked about his curiosity in sissification among other things. After he down graded as he will do it if asked along with 2 other things. At first I thought he’s just embarrassed about wanting to go this route with cis born young men. However when I got answers back to questions that were word for word from a previous member I got to wondering. The previous member admittedly wrote a blog about how he had done wrong by some female members. Then deactivated their account.
I myself have had 3 profiles over about 7 years. The 1st is still here somewhere but I no longer have access to it. Then I took a 2 year break. The last one I had to get rid of due for my safety. There are many reasons we members open and close profiles and have them written certain ways. I’ve learned to ask the community because I still have much to learn.