The Council

This does not presebtly exist.

With the present technology available ive done my best to search everywhere allowed by the multiple sites and apps at my disposal as well as many many Google searches. Nothing.
I've received many messages ppl asking where they are, do they exist, where can they be found, what can be done. Nothing.
Essentially the leaders of the communities we have that i have been able to find and have messaged personally have all told me the same thing. Not interested.

So we're left with the admins and moderators to watch their sites and apps, individuals to monitor the groups they create, organizers to have DMs that are hopefully qualified, all while everyone does anything they want without regulations or limits or having their actions questioned.
I've known quite a few ppl that were outted by the places they went and all they did was go somewhere else under a different name, deleted their account just to make a new one with a new email address. Same ppl, same problem.
Anyone can read the posts and forums of the constant problems that have been in the community way before Craigslist closed their personals.

So we need a Council. Specificly a group of our leaders that will do what needs to be done to regulate the indecency of this lifestyle.
I know theres a concil for riggers. To be known as a qualified rigger you need to proove your ability to them.
I know theres a council of NJ munches, they collaborate and schedule that states events to ensure they're done on different days of the week.
So thats it? No more? As limited as I am to my geographical location and the few fetiahes I actually enjoy theres nothing else? Of the whole east coast within the last 20 yrs ive knly heard of 2, no others? Guess they dont want to be widly known, could be private organizations, or they're simply not there.

What does it take to have a council? Ppl that want to do the work, that have the time to put in the effort, that are experienced enoughbof this lifestyle to specify whats acceptable as compared to everything else thats been going on.
How do you make it happen? Well as far as ive seen no one really cares about the community as a whole, they just want to do their own thing and thats good enough. No, theres more that can be done. Get to the top of the leader board, see who the ppl that teach were taught by, know who they'd follow. Cause essentially they're not gonna do it.
Can the populace force this to happen? Technically no, but everyone has their limits. So whats the best way of amkingnppl give in? Constant bothering? Stop going to their events while telling them why? Constant admiration? Nit-picking them with every concern this community has been dealing with? There's really jo right way to get anyone do what they dont want to and coercion usually leads them in the direction of indiference.
What would the Council do exactly? Hear ye, hear ye. Deciding what needs to be done about everything that has been seen as wrong by practicly everyone for so long I no easy task.
Its like letters to Santa. Each instance needs to be considered. All sides and perspectives need to be heard. Proof has to be found cause hearsay is just word-of-mouth gossip. Sometimes legal action has to happen to file for an organization's paperwork if they dont want to concede. Sometimes said repeat offenders need to be caught in the act. Sometimes theres nothing that cna be done about it cause no proof can be found. Sometimes the perpetrator cant be found cause the left the lifestyle completely or could even be incarcerated for other reasons. It takes a lot of time, a lot of effort, and most likely money no one wants to pay.

Before I was partnof this lifestyle I knew a guy from a local coffee house. He said he was gay, but was never seen with 1 guy, always in a group or with a couple. He was never directly included, but was always there with comments. He was never seen as partnered, but always seemed to squeeze his way into scenes. Ya talk to enough ppl and I heard he'd only be freindly with guys, but very touchy feels with girls. That happened with groups, with couples, in public, and in private. It was a collective understanding that he used the term of gay to get closer to women through their male partners.
I knew a female sub from Alabama that needed to be away from someone that told her she was his. She then had been online for some time to find a local partner and things seemed great till the met. At a hotel no less. From what she said things went well and they did what they talked about till it didnt seem enough for him. She got raped, he left money on the table for her 'services', called her a whore.
I knew a guy that used to help out at evebts, had heard hed done quite a lot, been around a few blocks. Assisted at the wrong event as something happened that made them talk and gossip about a bunch of stuff that had apparently happened before, but they only started to talk about it now. ostracized from that group, then another, and another. Then trying statt with any other was simply impossible cause no one wanted the bad publicity. The old groups talk and gossip for years after the organizer stopped organizing.
I knew a female sub that was in a dynamic and some said the wrong thing at the right time. Word spread, ppl repeated it, gossip, hearsay. She was ostracized from that group where it happened, then another, and another.
I knew a couple that frequently attended a local event. They decided to photograph their scene. No one else was in the pictures, no one in the background, but the flash sparked controversy. The ppl that saw it freaked, the DM checked the footage including before and after picts to confirm, but that wasn't enough for the rest of the ppl that attended. They were shunned by that group. I see them occasionally at vanilla events of mutu interests, but they dont do lifestyle events anymore.

How many stories can any of us tell of such incidents? Sometimes the problem is one person, a couple, a group, and sometimes its ppl gaslight or cry wolf.