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What type of aftercare do you want/need?

Secret Mind​(dom male)
8 hours ago • Nov 13, 2026

What type of aftercare do you want/need?

Secret Mind​(dom male) • Nov 13, 2026
I've realized I may need to step up my aftercare game. So I'd like to hear from the submissives here.

Do you like to cuddle and fall asleep, talk, eat or drink, be praised, be left alone, take a shower, watch a movie, or brush your hair? Walk me through a step by step of the aftercare you need or would like after some hard play and after some light play.

For those who are new and inexperienced, what does your dream aftercare look like?
dollMaker​(dom male)
4 hours ago • Nov 14, 2026
dollMaker​(dom male) • Nov 14, 2026
You discuss this with the people you want/will play with BEFORE, you play. This is basic stuff, the conversation should happen along with limits, boundaries activities discussion before anything occurs. Only what those people need, matters.
Lovingly Strict​(dom female)
29 minutes ago • Nov 14, 2026
► dollMaker wrote:
You discuss this with the people you want/will play with BEFORE, you play. This is basic stuff, the conversation should happen along with limits, boundaries activities discussion before anything occurs. Only what those people need, matters.


And yet no where did you properly answer his question or say anything remotely helpful.

For myself I enjoy receiving lots of praise, head pats, being given water, cuddling up to watch my favorite shows, and generally feeling loved and appreciated. Oh and a shower together is also a huge plus.
Secret Mind​(dom male)
19 minutes ago • Nov 14, 2026
Secret Mind​(dom male) • Nov 14, 2026
► dollMaker wrote:
You discuss this with the people you want/will play with BEFORE, you play. This is basic stuff, the conversation should happen along with limits, boundaries activities discussion before anything occurs. Only what those people need, matters.


Oh fuck off. You need to get over yourself, kid. You're always acting like a kink keyboard warrior on here. I blocked you years ago, and you're still upset by it. God forbid I ask a simple, fun question in the discussion forums without you getting offended and upset by it.